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Does this type of thing actually happen (maybe NSFW)

Asked by jaketheripper (2779points) October 9th, 2009

In movies and television shows male characters who find themselves in extremely arousing situations often ejaculate before any physical contact occurs. Or sometimes they will just be passionately kissing and then it will happen. I just wanted to know if this actually happens to people. It hasn’t happened to me ever. Have any of you or anyone you know climaxed without actually being touched down there?

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eponymoushipster's avatar

if they’re sexually inexperienced, yes, it can happen.

they get too “excited” too soon.

dpworkin's avatar

It is called premature ejaculation, is often found in sexually inexperienced males, and there are techniques for dealing with it if it causes them distress.

MissAnthrope's avatar

Yeah, it does happen. Alternately, a small portion of women can climax without being touched. I’m slightly envious.

oratio's avatar

Often on the screen? Premature male ejaculation? I should get a tv. I don’t recall ever seeing this.

MissAnthrope's avatar

@oratio – Watch some Glee.

poofandmook's avatar

@MissAnthrope: I KNEW someone else would know this happened on Glee

deni's avatar

The first time I had a real boyfriend, I was 16 and he was 17. Neither of us had ever done anything sexual before. At first all we would do was lay down and make out. Well the first time things started to progress from there, I wasn’t touching HIM at all, and he wasn’t touching himself, but he still came in his pants. He told me this a few months later and I laughed sooooooooooo hard.

syz's avatar

In BDSM circles, there are stories of subs who are trained to ejaculate on command (a certain release word is used at the point of orgasm, and eventually the release word itself is enough to elicit the response).

MrItty's avatar

Before any physical contact (even hugging/kissing)? No, can’t say that’s happened. In my much younger days, before physical contact with the organ in question, yeah, no question.

syz's avatar

@jmah Google “bdsm, ejaculate on command”, you’ll get all kinds of articles.

eponymoushipster's avatar

@syz @jmah wow, i bet that’s a very interesting google search to perform. ha.

dalepetrie's avatar

You mean like this?

Grisaille's avatar

@syz I believe that qualifies as a superpower.

eponymoushipster's avatar

the only reason i’d learn to jizz on command is to do a “Houdini”.

poofandmook's avatar

@syz: I need to figure out how to make my boyfriend do that O.o

syz's avatar

@poofandmook A whole new aspect of embarrassing your SO at a party.

oratio's avatar

@syz So… what’s your command word?

eponymoushipster's avatar

BANANA!

waits to see what happens with @syz

syz's avatar

<==not a sub

oratio's avatar

Aww… shoot…

eponymoushipster's avatar

@oratio that could be the key phrase! good job!

CMaz's avatar

“In BDSM circles, there are stories of subs who are trained to ejaculate on command ”

I had one of those. Really.

oratio's avatar

@ChazMaz You had a sub?

drdoombot's avatar

When I was around 17 and had a girl go down on me for the first time, I remember having a “romantic explosion” very, very quickly.

Looking back now, I don’t know how that happened. It takes much longer these days.

Grisaille's avatar

“romantic explosion” is about as funny at term as “hand party”

deni's avatar

HHAHAHAHAHA romantic explosion

casheroo's avatar

I’ve seen it happen to a guy, but there was kissing and I guess some friction going on…but not enough to warrant an ejaculation normally…but it did happen.
I suppose it could happen to a very sensitive man, with no touch at all, by just the thought of it happening. But, I’ve never seen that.

Zen's avatar

This thread is giving me an explosion of the romantic kind.

CMaz's avatar

oratio – Yes. Actually a Gorean Slave.

poofandmook's avatar

I don’t actually want my boyfriend to be a sub… lol… I just want him to be able to do that… LOL

critter1982's avatar

Don’t wet dreams occur on the same basis, being without physical contact?

hungryhungryhortence's avatar

What fun would that be? No, I’ve never seen it happen though I have been with an adult who came in less than a minute of touching me which was disappointing.

poofandmook's avatar

@hungryhungryhortence: Um… in one of my favorite bedroom practices, it would be very fun… and um, that’s all I’m saying.

hungryhungryhortence's avatar

@eponymoushipster: that’s what it said but I still felt irritated naughty simian
@poofandmook: that would be okay time to witness and share one my particular uhm bedroom activities too :D

sandystrachan's avatar

Premature ejaculating happens , guy’s get loads of work in certain porn movies with this kind of talent .

saraaaaaa's avatar

Well that was an education!

Blondesjon's avatar

I just did.

In all fairness, I was looking at a photo of Bea Arthur.

HGl3ee's avatar

Hurrah to cumming on command!! My pet is so good at that ;) – LB

Webzilla's avatar

It happened to me once in a way. I was with my boyfriend a long time and one night we had a drink and were staying in a friends house. I really wanted it and so did he, we were lying on the bed and before I ever got near his trousers he had came!!! I find it funny now and a great confidence boost but at the time I was furious!!!

Jack79's avatar

It happened to me once, though technically there was touching (for about 1 second). It was a period when I was much younger and active, and was dating a nymphomaniac. We had sex several times a day every day, and were both aroused constantly. Sex would range anywhere between 5 and 15 minutes, which meant we’d squeeze in several rounds per “session”.

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