What to do if a friend likes the girl you like?

It was rude of him to have feelings for someone?

Ask her out.

What have I done? I let my friend go out with her. Huge mistake.

Well, the thing is… I like another girl more. The one girl my friend and I like told me she liked me. I was planning to ask the other girl out tomorrow.

Arm wrestle.

Yeah right. I would beat him without even trying.

Ask her out first, if your friend says “I like her” respond with “you may like her, but I may love her”

Yeah, The other girl is 10 times hotter,nicer,smarter,cooler Did I mention hotter

I am confused

I don’t know the relationship you have with the girls but uh..
You know that they’re not property right? Relationships are consentual things.

“Have”? Are we at the shops?

@steelerspilot, please, please, please figure out a way to stop thinking of women as possessions!

Thank you.

I know that they are. I am in a part of my life that there are many things going on. Some good things, some bad things

To @aprilsimnel‘s point, you may do the asking, but the girls do the choosing. Why ruin a friendship when neither girl will choose either one of you? That’s usually how these things work out…

Well, I can agree with that statement. I chose the girl I like and that is the girl I am asking out tomorrow. He chose on girl. I chose another. I can tell you that

So why are we even discussing this?

I made that decision a minute ago. I wanted other peoples input. Dang!

Well, you said you and your friend like one girl, but you really like another girl more.

So what kind of date do you have in mind?

Pay no mind to @PandoraBoxx. Don’t get ahead of yourself. Wait till she says “yes”, then decide on a date

Double date! Wait,are you asking the girl who you think is better out or ther girl you both like?

The girl that I personally think is better.

This question is one of the reasons I would never want to go back to my high school days.

Well they are good days and then there are the bad days

Why is it such a big deal for your friend to like girl #1, if you like girl #2 so much better? It would be selfish of you to keep him from asking her out if you have stronger feelings for someone else. The girls can make their own decisions, anyway.

grow up maybe?

Don’t sleep with her, your friend will hate you for months! Just call dibbs, that’s always the easiest way to go

Get used to it.

This is all very confusing, so let me clarify this for myself: ‘Your friend likes girl #1, you like girl #2 better’.

When I read that I can’t help but feel that you like girl #2 (for whatever reason, probably shallow), but you are afraid of your chances with that girl. Maybe you always thought of girl #2 to be your backup plan, and now someone is messing with that. You snooze you lose, never underestimate the competition.

What the.. See I told you I would screw up. I meant to say you thought of girl #1 as a backup.