Ex girlfriend - Should I get back together?

I still have feelings for an ex, and I know I could get back together with her if I made the first move. The problem is that she is not making a move to get back together with me.

Should I go for it? Or does the fact that she is not trying mean that it wouldn’t be the same as it was before.

We broke up because she cheated on me. So I feel like me trying to get back together would mean I was being used. But I also keep thinking that its just me being vain and I should do it because it would make me happy.

Would this happiness be a lie? (I’m afraid it would be)

A little guidance would be nice. Since this is my life, I can’t look at it objectively.