Should I ask her again to go out with me or wait for her next step?
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October 31st, 2009
What can I understand from a girl strange behavior near me? I like this girl A LOTso I have asked her out 6 month ago. She said “no”. We remained friends since that time for several months. But, now she’s acting very strange near me. She can talk simply with all the guys out there but when I’m near by she is stressed and looking for my attention all the time, trying to develop conversations with me and say such obscure phrases.
What am I supposed to understand from her behavior now? I don’t want to ask her out again, I want her to ask me out if only she really want me this time.
Today we talked about books I read and she asked me if I can bring her the book I’m reading now. She said she likes the same books I’m reading. We found that we have the same Hobbies. Interesting!
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Shoot low. Ask her for coffee instead of a date. Baby steps.
Either that or just flirt enthusiastically.
I think the line I would eventually use (in a playful manner and with reasonable timing) would be “Careful, keep that up and I just might ask you out again” as a pseudo-threat.
Puts her in the driver’s seat.
I like @delirium ‘s quote. I think you should use it.
^^^^ as do I. And as far as the whole situation goes, I feel like she might be feeling as if she passed up the opportunity to go out with you and she might be realizing that she should have.
Sounds to me like she definitely likes you (that is girl liking you behaviour.) I would go with Delirium’s suggestion or if she is a logician you could ask, “What would you say if I asked you out again?”
She’s probably beginning to realize that maybe she does like you after all, and now she’s not sure how to behave since she already turned you down last time. If I were you I’d take it slow. @johnpowell ‘s idea is good, ask her out for coffee or something small to begin with
or since you say that she mentionned she likes books and she wants to read the same one as you, bring her to a book sotre, have coffee and pick out books together. makes for interesting conversation without any stress. she probably won’t ask you ou if she likes you because she thinks she lost her chance. if you still like her, i don’t see why you shouldn’t try again. but like others have said, take it easy, baby steps. but do let her know that you’re sill interested.
sounds to me like she likes you. Don’t ask her outright to go on a date with you, but make conversation with her, flirt and show her you like her too. Then ask her out somewhere. If theres a party something along those lines ask her to go with you. If she likes you, she’ll love this. good luck.
Always ask her to go out with you,you have nothing to lose!Especially if you really like her/don’t ever “let her go”.
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