What's a good way to get student loans organized?

I have a couple of different companies that my student loans are going through. The primary is Sallie Mae, although I guess there’s a difference between private and federal loans (both through Sallie Mae), plus a third through Chase. The problem I’m running into is that not only Sallie Mae is incredibly uncooperative with consolidations and most debt relief companies, but have a tendency to tell me one thing and and do another.

Does anyone know of any debt relief companies, consolidation techniques or anything at all that can help me get this under control?