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Has this ever happened to you were you like someone but, his best friend flirts with you?

Asked by ness_t (46points) November 24th, 2009

There was this one time that the guy that I like had a best friend. His best friend use to and still does flirt with me. Even though he nows that I like his friend.

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chelseababyy's avatar

Ignore it. You’re young, they’re young. If you like the guy, and his friend knows this, yet still flirts, don’t flirt back. That could send the wrong message. Stay focused on the one you like.

TheNimrod's avatar

@chelseababyy I’ve be a witness to this situation many times that’s the best thing you can do.

chelseababyy's avatar

@TheNimrod Yeah. Mixed signals are no bueno.

TheNimrod's avatar

@chelseababyy Exactly! Very dangerous territory. And if the friend has feelings for the girl and the girl doesn’t have feelings for him, the best thing to do is to not give off any signals you could maybe like the friend. It sucks to like someone, have hope they like you and then see them going out with your friend.

chelseababyy's avatar

@TheNimrod Oh yeah. They just think you’re leading them on, which is never a good thing.

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