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Is my friend spending too much time on her boyfriend, or is it just me?

Asked by MulledOver (9points) November 26th, 2009

So my friend and her boyfriend have been together for 8 months. But yesterday I realized that something I didn’t like was going on. Yesterday was supposed to be “girls day” where me and my girlfriends hangout together and its been a long time since we did it because we have exams coming up. My friend and her BF get to see eachother and talk to eachother everyday. She texts him during class time, talks to him on the phone surring lunch time, and meets him after school. And at yesterdays “girls day” We played games and hung around at the beach being like the goofy people we are. And she missed almost everything because she was just either sitting or standing there talking or texting to her boyfriend. She missed games and didn’t laugh at jokes just because she missed them because she was talking to her boyfriend. And when she stopped talking to him, she got all grumpy and stuff. Is love supposed to be spending every second with your boyfriend? Even when you’re out with your girlfrieds? Or is it just that she’s spending TOO much time on him?

i have my own boyfriend and he was kind enough to let me have girl time and we agree that we still have our own lives. Me having fun is just as important to him. I’m worried about my friend.

She’s had a lot of boyfriends before BUT it seems like she’s really into this one. I’ve never seen her like this before. She said that she’d never want to marry someone and just have boyfriends for fun but now it seems that shes infatuated with this guy and takes every chance to be with him and she’s only 16

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