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Do you have a fetish?

Asked by DominicX (28808points) January 3rd, 2010

I’m not asking you to tell me what it is, but I am wondering if you do have one.

If you do, is it really important in your relationships, or do you kind of ignore it?

Because over the years, I’ve realized I do indeed have a fetish. Don’t worry, it’s not gross or anything (in my opinion), but it’s not something most people have. And luckily in my case, I do find it important, but no one else will ever really have to know about it, not even my boyfriend. :)

And furthermore, I’d like to make the point that I didn’t choose to have a fetish. Just like I didn’t choose to be gay. It just is what it is.

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absalom's avatar

No, but I sometimes wonder whether it wouldn’t make things more interesting…

delirium's avatar

Of course.
Though I suggest telling your boyfriend, because you can then play towards it. Communication about these things can enhance the physical relationship a great deal.

CMaz's avatar

I like my fetish with a nice creamy cheese sauce.

hungryhungryhortence's avatar

Yes and luckily my partner is not only amused and comfortable with it, he likes it also sometimes.

Tomfafa's avatar

My life is a collection of fetishes and cravings! I revel in them.

poisonedantidote's avatar

‘a’ fetish? no. 100’s of them! you name it, chances are i love it. are they important to me? not at all, i’ll just as gladly substitute them with holding hands and cuddles.

scotsbloke's avatar

I think I do, but it’s an unfulfilled “fantasy” sort of fetish, and totally secret.
Maybe one day…............

AstroChuck's avatar

Yes. It was given to me by an old Native American shaman.

jamielynn2328's avatar

I do have a fetish, and I was never very good at keeping it a secret. My husband knows about it and sometimes indulges and enjoys!

Tomfafa's avatar

COME ON GUYS!!!! She didn’t mean jello as a fetish unless it involves sex!!! At least be creative… or let yourself go here! Remember you are protected by being incognito here on fluther!

bandit77's avatar

i like smelling womens armpits

DominicX's avatar

@delirium

Yeah, maybe. The thing is, though, that he pretty much already satisfies it, just without knowing. :P

Facade's avatar

Yea. I like veins in men’s hands and forearms =)

hungryhungryhortence's avatar

@Facade: me too! The sight of veins on the skin surface or the color of them prominently below the skin is sexually arousing.

delirium's avatar

@DominicX I personally would want him to know he’s already satisfying it.

Allie's avatar

Hmm, I don’t think I have any fetishes. I have certain things that I like more than others (like the torso/arms/hands of a man, or a man in a suit), but I don’t think I would consider them fetishes.

Tomfafa's avatar

@Facade That’s crazy because… I have large forearms and wrists that are good at squeezing! I could take my ex to the point of orgasm just by kissing (biting) her neck and squeezing her ass!

Bluefreedom's avatar

I think so but I’m not absolutely sure. I think a little more experimentation is in order.

deni's avatar

@Facade omg me too! i could touch them for hours oooooooooooooooooooooh

Berserker's avatar

I have one, and it’s been practiced before, but not alla time.
Aside from a categorized fixation of a sexual nature on something or a certain concept or situation, I’m not entirely sure how to define a fetish, however mine doesn’t rule my life. I can do without it. But it’s great to indulge every now and then.

Polly_Math's avatar

Porcupine quills.

janbb's avatar

Fetish? Isn’t that a kind of Middle-eastern bread salad?

Berserker's avatar

^
It’s cheese.

CMaz's avatar

Wow, and I have never been crazy about my bulging veins.
I will now have to re think that.

Though there is one place that it is rather special.

DominicX's avatar

@delirium Yeah, I know, I’m just kinda embarrassed… :\ And I don’t want him to think I’m weird for it.

Facade's avatar

@Tomfafa That’s uhh.. that’s pretty great :)
@deni And strong hands!

deni's avatar

@ChazMaz oh yeah…turn that frown upside down and learn to love them veinz…..hahahaha

@Facade and that too! as i faint..

CMaz's avatar

@deni – You are one crazy MoFo!

But, so wise. :-)

deni's avatar

@ChazMaz wise mofo is my middle name

Violet's avatar

Yes, bondage

stranger_in_a_strange_land's avatar

Several, but never to be indulged in again.

Grisaille's avatar

Probably more than I’m willing to admit.

jca's avatar

yes i do. some people know. i am not presently in a relationship so it’s not an issue.

phil196662's avatar

@DominicX – Don’t be afraid to tell him, you might have Even More fun! make sure both of you are OK with what you do and have a Safe word to stop everything when one doesn’t feel totally ok because it should Always feel Fantastic!
yes the Wife and I have a Fetish- We are pretty into Exploring our out-of-body-limits!

stratman37's avatar

“I like big BUTTS and I cannot lie, all you other brothers can’t deny! When a girl walks in with an itty bitty waist and a round thing in your face you get SPRUNG!!

delirium's avatar

@DominicX Seriously. Don’t be embarrassed. If he does it already, there’s no reason not to tell him. He’ll probably REALLY enjoy having something that he knows is extra special even if he does normally do it.

The guy I am seeing now has a fetish for cum-play. I would be letting him come all over me no matter what. I like it to a degree and it’s fun. But now that I know that it is extra special for him, I get to take extra pleasure in knowing I can do that for him, and I get to know exactly how it works because I always want to give him as much pleasure as humanly possible.

I’m sure your boyfriend would feel the same way if you were to tell him.

phil196662's avatar

@delirium Does he get to squirt a certen part of your body? or choose? My Wife loves to have it on her face and a little in her hair then later in public she can feel that area and her hair feels different because of the effects of cum. And yes she washed her hair before going out!

delirium's avatar

I’m a trained Sub. He gets to do anything he wants, though sometimes I like to feel it drying on my skin as we do the post coital snuggling.

phil196662's avatar

Congrats on such a relationship @delirium , the Wife and I are Switch and go all the way to Edgeplay but she’s mostly Sub and has to be reminded of her Safe Word she uses so seldomly. That crusty cum is totally weird sometimes depending on what he has eaten but are you a good girl at Cleaning Up I hope.

delirium's avatar

HA, we did have a safe word once. I sure as the dickens don’t remember it.

phil196662's avatar

And how can you udder it through all the moaning when he has you Engaged in Play Time! The tells me if she’s Quietly Moaning and Twitching than everything is OK.

Mikelbf2000's avatar

Yes, I have a foot fetish lol. It’s strange I love it when a woman puts her bare feet on my bare belly. Strange I know.

phil196662's avatar

nope- not strange… rub them and see if it gets her started , then you know she’s loves her feet rubbed!

Deklandb's avatar

God, i have too many to count, and i am afraid to tell anyone (well, anyone in not on the internet) but i imagine that anyone who loves you would love to see you excited, no matter what sparked your excitement. I love to know my partner is completely satisfied, thats what makes me completely satisfied!

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