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Does she like me?

Asked by iamawsome (19points) January 30th, 2010

i`m gay and theres this girl i like, i`m in 7th and she is in 8th. I told one of my friends that i liked her. but my friend told other people and finally she(my crush) found out i like her. When we had to go to an assembly with the 8th graders and she asked my friend which girl liked her and my friend pointed me out. She told her not to call me over but my friend did anyway. I walked over and said something probably embarrassing to my friend,made no eye contact and walked away. The next day I was walking in the hallway at school and she was walking by with her freinds. She saw me looking at her and quickly smiled at me.(she is a very nice person and never spreads rumors or anthing like that so maybe she was just being nice so i`m not sure). also,i have after school dance practices with her after school sometimes but she dosn`t really notice me but I catch her looking at me sometimes.(maybe shes just curious about me?). Then, we had to make a heart and decorate it for valentines day. A friend that knew about me liking her saw her(my crush) in the bathroom at school and told her that i wrote her(my crush) name on the the heart. My crush said…“Thats just not right”. PLEASE TELL ME IF YOU THINK SHE LIKES ME OR IS JUST TRYING NOT TO BE MEAN OR RUDE! but the one thing i know is tht she is a very,very,very,very kind person.

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LethalCupcake's avatar

I think that she is just trying to be as polite as possible about the situation….. How long have you known you were gay?? Your very young to be worrying about this…..

spiritual's avatar

I think it’s really hard to tell with all the “she thinks this and she said that”.
You’ll not know for sure unless you speak to her. Maybe get her alone and ask her for a coffee, and speak to her alone when your together. Otherwise it’s just be rumours, and they can mess with your head.

poisonedantidote's avatar

a lot of girls are comfortable around gay men, they tend to see them as a kind of sister at times. she could be sending mixed signals, it could be genuine, i cant say really. too hard to tell.

lol @ ’‘i`m gay and theres this girl i like’’ hehe :P

Self_Consuming_Cannibal's avatar

Well my opinion is if when she found out that you put her name on your heart and her response was “That’s just not right,” I don’t think it sounds to promising. If you liked somebody and you found out they wrote your name on a heart, do you think you would say, “That’s just not right”?

I hope I’m wrong, but it doesn’t sound to good from where I’m sitting.

J0E's avatar

Judging purely by your username, I would say yes.

chyna's avatar

@poisonedantidote I think the poster is a female.

Steve_A's avatar

Focus on your English class and don’t worry about this at your age.

You have plenty of time and it will be easier to find someone the older you get.

Chongalicious's avatar

@Self_Consuming_Cannibal that could be the case…it all depends on how she said it. She could have meant it to mean “it’s not right that you would tease me like that!” I would’ve said the same, thinking they were joking just to tease me, we’ll never know for sure since we can’t witness what’s actually happening :(
I hope it’s not all rumors, best of luck to ya sweetheart!

KimKourtKhloe's avatar

I don’t know. You have to ask her.

Nullo's avatar

She might just be more conservative than that. People can be nice and still think that you’re wrong.

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