how do you ask a girl out who has already turned u down and just wants to be friends?

move on…

….you dont

I would say just let it go,and try to maintain a good friendship. I had a crush on this one girl starting in the 8th grade, she always turned me down, but we stayed friends. We just got married last year, and are expecting a baby! If it is meant to be, it will happen.

wow @ bulba! haha!
i’ve had a major thing for this girl for about 2 years and it still hasn’t happened. so @ gfizz, just live your life and don’t stress yourself out about a girl. like he saidi, if it’s meant to be it will happen.

once you enter the “friend realm” it’s next to impossible to exit it.

bulbatron9’s experience is FAR from normal.

@drewtyer That is because they get to know you for who you really are.

never happened to me.

i’m the douche that says they just want to be friends and then stops calling.

seems to be my M.O. i get bored and move on.

thanks for the atempted slam though bulbatron

Depends on how much she really means to you. If you really do care just be there for her when she needs someone to talk to. But don’t stop dating other people because of her. I have seen two of my close friends end up with the girls of their dreams this way.

@drewtyer I meant “you” in its collective form. I didn’t mean to come off that way. LuckVIII knows what he is talking about.

NO means NO. If she’s turned you down, politely express that you’re interested and if she changes her mind, she knows where to find you. Then MOVE ON.

Kimboslice said it….you don’t. There is just no point and there is no need to put yourself through that kind of torture. If it were there for her, she would NOT have turned down the chance to go out with you, believe me! Lots of good advice in the answers above. You will find a girl who digs you, no worries.

If you are intent on asking her out again, approach the situation differently. The best way would be to decide how to make yourself more appealing to her without changing who you are. If you can figure that out, then she’ll come to you.

But I can’t understand…why would you want to go out with a girl that turned you down (unless she was unavailable at the time)? Why not find a girl that feels the same way about you that you feel about her?