How many men out there agree with the sentiment expressed in "Delight in Disorder" ?

Not a guy, but what a lovely, sexy poem!

I first read this as a teenager, and it made me feel better about my imperfections, especially with respect to wardrobe.

Frivolousness – that’s all I see in that

SDB: Frivolity must be the detoxicant of the gender deconstructed existentialist.

I agree, wonderful, sexy poem.

@davidk I disagree.

what is a stomacher?

A stomacher is similar to a corset only it is decorative and worn on the outside.

I find it interesting that although the question was addressed to men, only women have answered it. What’s that about?

Since @davidk said “Frivolity must be the detoxicant of the gender deconstructed existentialist,” I can’t think of a word to add!

yep, I’ve noticed it in myself. I guess the ‘disorder’ suggests just a bit of possible wantonness. Part of the attraction is just that you notice the person for whatever reason, and especially if she is otherwise carefully put together the little bit out of whack is just bloody fascinating. Doesn’t work if it’s a case of just sloppy, it has to be some exceptional bit.
I admire the folks who agree or disagree with @davidk because I’m not sure what he means and it sure sounds like some mighty thinkin’ !