Well there is a great way to change all of this immediately.
You may not like the answer, but try it and I’ll bet it works.
First, understand that men like challenges. We thrive on them. We all want to be conquering heroes and fulfill our childhood brainwashing. So if you want to play the game with the man of modernity, then learn the game that he’s playing.
Immediately… STOP initiating Sex and Intimacy.
He’s already conquered that and it is now part of his little kingdom. Nobody can give him more of what he already has unless it is outside of his current kingdom. So remove that treasure from the trove and see how he reacts to loosing something that he previously thought he had conquered.
Immediately… STOP complaining to him about it or even ever mentioning it again.
That will only make him wish he’d never conquered it in the first place. He’ll say “What have I done? She’s become such a bitch! Can’t she see I’m the KING?!?! Nobody treats the King like this. Off with her head!”
Immediately… START using a new perfume and change your hairstyle AND color.
Don’t talk to him about it and don’t get his opinion or his approval. Just DO IT! And don’t worry if he’s going to like it or not. Make yourself happy with it. Get a massage while you’re at it and get some strange hands on your body.
Immediately… STOP calling him for anything whatsoever.
“Yes you’ll have to deal with horrible stomach knots but those will be gone by tomorrow afternoon. Mark my words, within 3–4 days, he will call and say “Wassup”? Better have your story straight… because in the mean time you’ve been to a local art gallery and have a wonderful painter to talk about. Don’t mention your hair changes and don’t be spiteful when he calls. Just kindly let him know that your life is not dependent upon his presence or approval of you. Not so blunt as that, but your stories of your activities without him will speak for themselves.
If he doesn’t get a clue, then he’s not worth being with in the first place and you can only expect more of the the same and worse in the future.
Immediately… STOP worrying if he is going to be the right person.
Immediately… START concentrating on becoming the right person yourself, but only for yourself and not him.
He will see the changes for himself without you ever having to mention or justify anything at all. He will find you new, exciting, and worthy of reclaiming for his kingdom. He will wonder how he misplaced such a precious treasure in the first place. He will admire and respect you for who you actually are rather than who you think he wants you to be. He will find that arousing and it will stimulate him to embrace you in the clutches of his passions.
If he doesn’t, then he was never your king in the first place. But you will be a prize for many other kings to compete over so do these things for yourself… You the Queen… A Queen who deserves to be treated as a precious Gemstone for all the world to behold.
Do this for it is Truth.
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