I think I may be liking this guy.
So this week in English class I have been sitting with a guy I think it really funny:) He is the same age as me. Today most kids went on a trip to the Parliament, but me and him and other kids did not go so we were the whole day in the same classes.
Later when school was finished and I was waiting for the bus home I was lying in the sofa in school. I was almost sleeping and he came and sat on my buttocs (butt) Later he sat next to me and started talking to me. Then I asked him if he was in a relationship with a girl who is in 9th grade and he said yes. Then he told me that its not a perfect relationship and that she is always blaming him for that. And later he said by and see you later.
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Just be pleasant, friendly and mildly flirty. If he has a girlfriend, you don’t want to be the one to break them up. Let that happen on it’s own. He might like you, he might just be friendly. Have fun and don’t get too nervous if you can help it.
Relax! Get to know him better and don’t feel pressured to make any major decisions.
Sit back and see where it goes. You cannot do anything while he is in another relationship, but you can be there for him if it does end. Enjoy his company, and maybe eventually things will work out for you. If not, you’ve still made a good friend and gained experience in how to handle guys.
If you are pretty and he is in a relationship, it will always be a bad one that is pretty much over. Trust me here.
It seems like a possibility, but you would have to tell him that you were interested, but only if he stopped dating the ninth grader.
Wait and see what happens between him and his girlfriend. Also see how he really is. Then if they break up go for it.
I will definitley wait:D
thank you all <3
“he said yes. Then he told me that its not a perfect relationship”
I don’t like him. ;-)
@ChazMaz , why not? :D, he is really a quiet guy, and she is like the mean girl. I think she is the one pushing him into this relationship of theirs. She is also SPOILED!
Yeah, I agree maybe she just pushing him and maybe he don’t like that….. Also she is very young a “freshmen” she is spoiled because he maybe let her do anything. But I don’t know…. :)
@Thesexier – IF that is how you want to see it.
Convince yourself anything you want.
But HE IS dating her. And, leading you along in the process.
He wants his cake and eat it too.
@Love_or_Like , Exactly! I think the same think, he doesn’t like her she is the one pushing him
yeah and what grade is he in?
oh thats good im in 9th :)
Oh wow;:D I think you are the 2 person I find on Fluther who is similar to my agexD
as long as he’s
1. cute
2. sane
then I say go for it!
haha it’s nice to finally meet some other young people on this site. I’m in 11th grade. :)
Let’s say he is your boyfriend. How would you feel of him. If he was chatting the way he is with you, with someone else?
@xRIPxTHEREVx , Agree, but he isn’t that cute just really good hearted<3<3<3
Nice 9th grader, 10th grader and 11th graderxD
@ChazMaz , I would feel betrayed, but if I were pushing him into something he didn’t want I would understand later when he breaks up with me that I pushed him AWAY!
“but if I were pushing him” That is an assumption you like to believe to feel better about this guy. And his opinion does not count on that matter. Him, going to do what ever he can to sway you.
Let’s just say she is “pushing him into something.” Then he is just a pussy. Do you really want to date a pussy?
No that is cool. If that is what you are ok with.
Just trying to “present” to you a little life experience.
@ChazMaz , ohhh you mean:D thank you for your concern:) I will think things out:D
@Thesexier ” I think she is the one pushing him into this relationship of theirs. She is also SPOILED!”
It is natural to dislike her if she is with the guy you like, but at the end of the day you are in no position to pass judgement on the state of their relationship. For all you know, he may really like her but just have a wandering eye. Don’t make a move unless their relationship ends.
@FireMadeFlesh , I wont make a move, I am very happy being single and concetrating on my school:D
i believe that you may be over thinking this situation. usually when a girl likes someone they seem to think little gestures mean more then they usually do. and lets be honest would you want to be known as the “boyfriend stealer”.
@Thesexier Oh really You are the only person That i met so far. That is like me age
What happened to the guy? Anything new?
@Love_or_Like , Yeah I was checking his facebook profile before and it doesn’t show that he is in a relationship with the girl:S
p.s he is not my friend on facebook
Oh why not? You should add him. Have you talked to him in school. You should talk to him.
Yeah…I talked to him. I am going to add him right now.
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