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How long did it take you to realize you were in love?

Asked by le_inferno (6194points) May 8th, 2010

Did you know almost immediately? Or were you dating someone for a while before it grew into love?

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Chongalicious's avatar

I dated him for about a month before I started thinking..maybe…just maybe! After a month and a half I knew it :) But I never did get the nerve to tell him until after I found out he felt the same (through his sister)...that was about 2 weeks later :D

Cruiser's avatar

I know immediately that I like someone or that crush phase which will grow into a deeper appreciation and desire to hang with that lady. True love takes time to trust that person enough to say I love you…mean it and they then appreciate your words and reciprocate in turn. Definitely takes time for that!

ItalianPrincess1217's avatar

It took me 4 years to realize it. Don’t ask.

ducky_dnl's avatar

I never got to date him, but I loved him almost immediately. He was sweet, kind, funny, handsome, and almost every good thing you could think of. I regret that I missed out on my soulmate, but I’m just glad he isn’t feeling any type of pain anymore. Rip! <3

chels's avatar

I kind of immediately knew it.
Yeah. Immediately.

Neizvestnaya's avatar

About a month after dating and during our first weekend away together. It’s when I observed him out of his usual element and began to believe the things he’d told me about himself, I believed we fit really well together.

titania's avatar

I knew after about a month.

DominicX's avatar

Not long. I was good friends with him long before I dated him. I already felt like I loved him then. When we started dating, then it was just quickly confirmed for me.

Draconess25's avatar

I think I always loved them, but it didn’t hit me until about 2 weeks ago.

Plone3000's avatar

Not to long, I fall in love to fast…

mollypop51797's avatar

Well, we knew each other for all of college. We graduated, and 4 years later we happened to be set up on a blind date…with each other. Within no time, we were married! I’m not quite sure if we loved one another in college, but we definitely found out on that blind date.

stranger_in_a_strange_land's avatar

Initially I thought it was a combination of infatuation and sympathy, but it was the real deal from the start. Fifteen years of bliss.

YARNLADY's avatar

I’m pretty much a love at first sight kind of person. I married my first husband after dating about six weeks. My second husband and I decided to get married on our third date, but waited about six months. My current husband and I met on Memorial Day, moved in together on the Fourth of July and married on Labor Day, 35 years ago.

lfino's avatar

I was in the first month of college and was still trying to figure out what was happening with my high school boyfriend. I met my future husband and at first thought he was ok, then thought he was unfriendly, then just kind of put up with him because he became friends of my friends (he lived on same floor in the dorm as my friends). I’d say a good couple of months at least. We’ve been married 31 years now.

OpryLeigh's avatar

I loved him before we got together and it was strange because I had a weird dream about him and I woke up thinking “I love this man. Shit!”

bstar3's avatar

It took me a week to figure out I was inlove with the person,
and then it took us 2 years to have a baby together.

Sophief's avatar

I knew I could love him from the moment we met, I knew I did love him about a few week into it.

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