True acceptance in a relationship or maybe not?

How would you surmise a relationship between a white man and Asian female where he says he loves her but seeks to Americanize her more by having her wear blue contacts, getting her hair bleached platinum blonde, and getting boob and butt implants, and for go using chop sticks at meal time? If he wanted the girl of Beach Boys song lore should he just get one of those instead of trying to “create” that gal from one who is not, or as long as she is willing to go along with all of that it is as cool as jazz?