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(NSFW) How was your first sexual experience?

Asked by curlyz (1194points) July 23rd, 2010

Was it unforgettable, embarrassing, horrible?
How was it?

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Adirondackwannabe's avatar

Very very nice. The sex part, fair, the connection part, unbelievable. :) :) :). see three smiles.

stardust's avatar

It wasn’t a bad experience. It was with a wonderful guy & we’re still friends. I’m really glad it was him :)

jazmina88's avatar

bad. date rape.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@jazmina88 I’m so sorry, cocksucking men,

Facade's avatar

It was great. I’m still with him.

FutureMemory's avatar

It happened in the A.M. which sucked ‘cause she had to go to work right after. I think it would have been better to have that post-coital cuddling all my guy friends had raved about.

tranquilsea's avatar

@jazmina88 Me too. @Adirondackwannabe thankfully it is only some men. Problem is they look just like all the good men.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

I’m with @jazmina88 on this one.He is the reason I own guns.

Cruiser's avatar

@jazmina88 and @lucillelucillelucille I hate to hear stories like that, infuriates me.

I laughed…out loud! :D

Jude's avatar

Quick, fun, and adventurous.

josie's avatar

It was good. With the daughter of my parent’s best friends-appropriate I guess.

BoBo1946's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille and @jazmina88 those are the kind of people that i would like to have taken “to the woodshed” in my prime! might have gotten my ass kicked, but it would have been one hellva fight!Some sad people out there!

BoBo1946's avatar

My first experience was like most, didn’t know my ass from a hole in the ground…and neither did she! Today, if i could talk to her, we could have a great laugh about that night!

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@jjmah Okay, no one ever called me intelligent, so I’m going to ask for more details. What were the adventurous parts? show me yours, I’ll show you mine?

Scooby's avatar

Corny! :-/
Quite literally……. Me & Lynn (big boobs ) headed off to the Corn field to well, role around in the corn, gets everywhere that stuff! :-/
Still my performance was a little deflated to say the least.. Still we had a good giggle, at least she did, still does come to think of it, if she sees me first! Lol… :-/

Jude's avatar

@Adirondackwannabe A lady never tells. :)

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

@jjmah I think I just got the nicest answer I could have got. :)

CMaz's avatar

It was tactile.

Something the imagination did not provide.

pathfinder's avatar

I was twelve swedish trio.one girl,one boy

stranger_in_a_strange_land's avatar

Enlightening but unemotional. I was a 21 year old army lieutenant at a high-class brothel in Munich. My instructor was thorough and well-qualified; the schnapps was overpriced. I had to wait another 17 years to experience love.

@jazmina88 @lucillelucillelucille I apologize on behalf of my gender/orientation. Some of us should be taken out behind the woodshed – and shot.

stranger_in_a_strange_land's avatar

@tranquilsea ^ (timed out before I could add your name)

WillWorkForChocolate's avatar

It was absolutely terrible. He was too small to “get the job done” and the whole thing was just humiliating.

ucme's avatar

Wham bam thank you mam….well I was young dumb & full of come. So yeah, pleasurable but over way too soon. Ahh the haste of youth, much better ever since, thank god ;¬}

lapilofu's avatar

I wonder if most people are interpreting this question as the “first time you had sexual intercourse.” There are many “sexual experiences” that are not intercourse and most of us go through a few of those first!

The first time I kissed a girl was pleasant and sunny. So was the first time I was naked with a girl. The first time I had intercourse was pleasurable, but also very emotional—with someone I was very attached to, just a couple days before I moved 2,000 miles away.

TexasDude's avatar

Horrible.

No actual sex was even involved and I’ve been anxious about sexual situations ever since :-/

Vunessuh's avatar

I was high on coke (to lesson the pain) and I cried because the sex hurt badly so I can only imagine what it would have felt like if I wasn’t high. There was an experience before this with a different guy where we tried to have sex, but it didn’t really actually happen so I don’t count it – but I think it may have been the reason why I essentially shut down and can’t enjoy sex very well now.

tranquilsea's avatar

@stranger_in_a_strange_land Thanks. It was a long time ago but things like that are never forgotten. Mine wasn’t exactly a date rape. He offered to drive me home because after drinking a bit too much I was nauseous. He had other plans and I was in no shape to fight back. If I were to see him today he’d get a fist in his face.

Keysha's avatar

Amazing. I waited 40 years to have sex, and Arisztid made it so memorable and incredible that I would space out thinking about it for days afterwards. Hell, I still can space out thinking about it, and he has shown me so much more since then.

Neizvestnaya's avatar

Horriible. I was the only virgin out of my group of longtime friends so one of them fixed me up with a virgin guy friend of one of her guy lovers so we could get it out of the way, so to speak. The four of us rented a room in one of the seediest motels on the red light strip of our city and tried our best to get drunk enough to relax and have sex. Neither of us could relax, especially listening to the other couple enthusiastically going at in on the next bed. We pulled to sheet over our heads and gave it a go. Neither of us had any pleasure, got off or continued very long. I gasped in pain and bled, he felt like a bumbling oaf and neither of us ever spoke to each other or saw each other again.

stranger_in_a_strange_land's avatar

@Keysha Arisztid is an amazing guy.

knitfroggy's avatar

It was horribly embarrassing. I’m surprised I ever had sex again. But, I’m no quitter!

Paxan8's avatar

My first time was uneventful. I was 17 and the only virgin I knew. I finally met a man I liked enough to have sex with and I could not understand why all my friends were so into this.
We had sex one more time and broke up. I didn’t have sex again for over a year because I just didn’t get it. Then I met Gil. Oh delicous “big” exciting Gil. Oh now I get it haha…my first was the size of a vienna sausage, that’s why I didn’t get it.

jca's avatar

my first sexual experience was getting fingered by this neighbor who was kind of naughty. he used oil, it was sensuous, we didn’t do any sex, but i did like the naughtiness of it. i was 14. i had intercourse for the first time not long after, not with him. i guess his fingering kind of prepared me for that.

little8632g's avatar

My first sexual experience was intercourse. It was 1980 and i was a few days before my 13th b-day. I was living on the lower west side of manhattan in the west village in a very italian neighborhood. i happened to mention to some of the fellas that it was almost my birthday. they decided to take me to a whore house on the east side named Peggy’s. We all crammed into a marathon taxi (the big ones) and within 10 mins we were at a 3 story walkup over on avenue b or c in the east village. the kids from my neighborhood used this place frequently so we buzzed the door – they buzzed us in we walked up to the first landing and there was a sitting room. there was maybe 5 of us. dirty mags to scope. one big bouncer dude sitting there. i was nervous. i was very big for my age so i palled around with the older kids. because i was younger – they were always doing things i hadnt done before. this was a big one. after a few mins – a beautiful blonde chick walks into the room. shes standing there waiting to see who will take her. i was nominated – i would have chosen her anyway – she was hot. she took me down a flight of stairs to an apartment and had me undress, she cleaned me and asked me what I wanted. the boys had told me to get a half and half – BJ then a fuck. i was a total virgin. she commenced the fellatio which was f-ing great then we had sex and badabing – i was done – lol – i got dressed and went back upstairs to wait for the boys and we went back to thompson st and i wasnt a virgin anymore. one of the best experiences of my life. i went back quite a few times after that even after i moved to texas – id still go back to Peggy’s.

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