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Does anyone know what my dream (nightmare) means?

Asked by ashsaintsfan (160points) August 24th, 2010

So Ive been having a reoccurring dream that I’m pregnant and the baby comes before the due date, forcing its way out, no matter how hard i try to stop it. Not only is it early but it is a mangled stillborn. I’m not pregnant but i have miscarried before. I dont need any rude comments because this is really bothering me.

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ducky_dnl's avatar

I think it’s away for you to cope with the miscarriage you had prior to the dreams. I really can’t say much because I honestly have know clue, but as a person who has nightmares a lot..then maybe I’d suggest seeing a counselor? Now talking to people might not help either because that has happened with me. I have nightmares about my friend dying and that I’m watching it. I never really get a rest from thinking of my friend. He’s in my dreams just as he is in my real life thoughts. You just need to sort through your thoughts. Everything in our dreams is what we have picked up subconsciously.

Brenna_o's avatar

It may be just you remembering the miscariage. Maybe go see a Dr about the dream.
P.S i am so sorry about the miscarry my mom had one. I know how devasting it can be.

ashsaintsfan's avatar

thank you guys. yeah the nightmares just started, and this august has been exactly a year since it happened. yes it was very devastating but they said it was because im young and underweight. my body wasnt ready i guess. but having to be reminded of it is very painful…

ducky_dnl's avatar

I mean a way* blahh

second_guessing's avatar

I would say that you haven’t gotten over your miscarriage and that’s why you are having these recurring dreams.

Try speaking to your doctor or counsellor or even to a close family member and share your dream. It won’t be an overnight cure but it should ease with time.

ashsaintsfan's avatar

true, i havent told anybody except my boyfriend, and thats because we’ve been close for a while. but enough is enough and this is just sickening and creepy. like in one part of the dream i have a babyshower and then right after that the father of my unborn child takes me to a secluded place…and thats where i have the premature stillborn, its sooooo messed up.

second_guessing's avatar

@ashsaintsfan I hope you get the help you need to get through this. Best Wishes :)

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