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Why when you love someone you can't have a dream about them?

Asked by unknown111 (8points) September 11th, 2010

I just want to see him in my dreams too.

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chyna's avatar

You cannot force dreams. If so, no one would want to ever wake up.

mamalis's avatar

That’s very sweet. “They” say that sometimes you can make a request to your “other than conscious,” prior to sleep. Such as, “Help me find a solution to – ” or “I’d really like to have a dream about – .” Sometimes this type of thing can work. It’s based on the same premise as why we often have nightmares about things we’re very worried about. I think the key is specificity. But what @chyna said is true. :)

Ben_Dover's avatar

That’s a shame @unknown111… I dream about all the women i love all the time!

DarlingRhadamanthus's avatar

True love doesn’t end….so that means I dream about a lot of people I love. All the time.:)

Mom2BDec2010's avatar

I dream about the person I love.

nebule's avatar

I just wish I had someone to love to dream about

I’d go with @mamalis ‘s suggestion…sounds pretty on the money to me

Cruiser's avatar

You will…just give it some time. ;)

loser's avatar

Nothing says you can’t. Maybe you already have and just don’t remember it.

Vincent_Lloyd's avatar

well like @chyna said you can’t force the fantasy or you won’t want to wake up to the reality. I wonder that too…I just can’t sometimes, but I try to think of her and see her and maybe feel what it would be like to kiss her or snuggle with her or what ever else..But try thinking of him more before sleep you might get what you want.

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