[NSFW]If you were asked to give advice about "going down" on the opposite sex, what would you say?

Hope he or she comes with a recent health inspection sticker. Venereal diseases are on the rise again. I recently read an article that said that ⅓ or the population in Washington suffers from or has had a venereal disease.

I’d say make sure you enjoy what you’re doing, look at your partner and listen to their breath changes, alternate ways in which your tongue/mouth does its job, so to speak and be aware of when to maintain a steady rhythm/speed.

I would say…

YES!

I would say the obvious: Lots of spit, avoid teeth, swirl your tongue, and use your hand. A twisted hand combined with a mouth, both going up and down, seems to be the ticket.

It’s my favorite thing in the world to do with a lady I love, so I would give blow by blow instructions to a willing student. I’d warn get rid of all your notions of squeamishness. If you don’t love the nastiness of it, you can’t give good head. I’d say play of your partner’s reactions. There is no single formula that works on every person. Experiment and find what puts them in orbit. Then keep them there as long as they want to fly. Do that, and they will be back for more.

Yum…

Um, I forgot what I was going to say.

What are you guys talking about? Fighting? I mean, I really don’t get this tongue swirling and hand thingy. There must be something I don’t understand.

I always thought that “going down” meant something like beating someone down. It always sounded so violent.

Am I missing something here?

@wundayatta If you think going down on someone means getting beat down, you are almost certainly missing something. :-)

@ETpro Oh Jeez! I knew it! And now I bet everyone is going to sit there snickering at me and no one will tell me what it really means. Sigh. Story of my life. ;-)

@wundayatta Ha! Just find someone to give you some lessons in what it’s all about. I’m sure you’ll soon move to the head of the class.

Start slow with a lot of teasing. Sometimes the most intense touch is the one that never really happens and is all in her mind.

Then chow down….

@Fiddle_Playing_Creole_Bastard O.O

@tragiclikebowie, shocking, isn’t it? My experience with this sort of thing is very limited though, so don’t fret

@Fiddle_Playing_Creole_Bastard Oh I wouldn’t call it fretting

@Fiddle_Playing_Creole_Bastard but you totally nailed it

@deni, I like to think so!

Three things to keep in mind: Be gentle. Be gentle. Be gentle. Unless she says otherwise.

Become one.

@MissA GA! Profound.

both giver and receiver should be open with the communication so it is enjoyable for both. tell what you like and likewise be ready for tips from them on what they like.