Ladies: muscles or brains?

It depends. I like muscles fried, but my brains sauteed with a little bit of parsley.

I want it all! So I chose both. If I can only chose one then it’s brains!! Super smart guys are way sexier to me then muscle bound hunks. I just get all gooey for geeks! Maybe it’s because I’m basically an idiot.

Brains without a doubt. After all your brain’s on pretty much all the time….so its more important to keep that stimulated.

I’ll keep that in mind.

From the looks of your picture Hollister0221, it seems like you have muscles XD

yea but I prefer to work on my brain muscle

brains for sure.
I wouldn’t want a cocky and ignorant guy(:

edit: not saying all are cocky and ignorant.

and I think most men do not want a dumb big boob blond bimbo. Say that five times. LOL

Brains. Definitely. I like guys with a quick mind because they can come up with witty comments and understand/use sarcasm in funny (not stupid) ways.

Brains, brains, sense of humor, brains, brains, brains . . .

@hollister You can say that again! I can’t count how many girls I’ve had to “dump” because they couldn’t hold the simplest of conversations.

Where I live it seems to be hard to find a lady with some brains. :((

Ripped ripped ripped, someone that can bench press more than me, ripped

I really think girls not so much older women, think guys are just walking hard on’s

Or crawling hard-ons

Or moon-walking hard-ons

And what do you suppose gives them that impression?

But I thought ALL men were walking hard-ons. In fact I thought that was the definition of being a man. LOL

And what about us big boob red-headed bimbos. Shesh, I get so upset when only a blonde can be a bimbo!! {giggles}

I’m a walking torpedo.

no i find these days. I like my wife to take it slow with me. Alot of guys think they have E.D. or something wrong with them but not true. We just don’t get excited like we used to. I like it when a woman is patient. Works her man up. Some women think you just take off your clothes and we jump into action. Course sometimes its like that. Lol

I don’t think I have that affliction. I’m a motorboat.

Hahaha. =]

Perhaps its the expectation set in your youth…..how is she to know the former sprinter is now a marathon runner…..or power-walker.

My husband pretty much jumps into action when I take my clothes off, but that is probably because he has learned to take advantage of his window of opportunity. See, it shows what a smart man he is!! And further proves I’m attracted to brains.

and your right wildflower. She has multiple orgasms to my one. Of course not all the time. But I merit my badge. I pat myself on the back sometimes. LOL

This one is hard to answer because my man has both.

How many women wish there man had both?

I read a study that said more marriages failed when the man looked better and had a better body than his spouse. Your take?

Probably true….the ego goes to his head…(so to speak, obviously there the entire time….but you know what I mean)

I think it would be true too. Men seem to be more into looks than women are.

so if true. Whats it say of the women that find the man attractive and goes after him knowing he is married?

we can’t help it. Its the way we were engineered. Its not right or wrong. Just the way it is

And you believe this only goes in that direction? Men don’t go after good looking married women?
And I’m not sure it’s the way you’re ‘engineered’, but I think it’s the way you’re conditioned….to discard or hide what’s beneath and focus on the visible (shame)

no its true. Men are engineered to spread its genes. Proven men look for an attractive healthy mate. To give him strong offspring. Women seek for someone to nurture them. Take care of them. Its always been the reason men and women are different

Men and women will never be alike. Donut ask me why. It was gods plan fit some reason. If we are not truly different. Why are there so many books drmevoted to the subject. So many divorces and the old saying “can’t live with them, can’t live without

yea and some women are suckers for reversed psychology and statements like “Women seek for someone to nurture them. Take care of them” makes them all the more certain they can pretty bl***y well do it themselves. (I’m not picking a fight, just saying)

I would not call them suckers. They just following there instincts. Infortunate for them if they get screwed along the way. Life does not always throw you a perfect pitch

women put there trust in there man. Usually when a man feels needed and wanted he stays around knowing be is needed. If a man feels inferior he leaves.

now some pussy whipped men stay. But in the end the woman usually sees him as weak and she may stray or leave

I think you generalize a bit too much.

I don’t think so. But that’s ok

Must be lovely and achromatic in your black and white world.

why does the world have to be so complex?

it just is, perhaps if you started to ask a few questions that weren’t related to physical appearance you’d realise just how many nuances there really are.

any how whats wrong with men and women being different?

You seem capable of recognising that men and women differ…...now try to expand on that to recognise that men can differ from each other and women the same…..you may discover this concept called personality and individualism.

I think our differences keep the harmony. If we were to much alike we would get bored with the other

yea there are personalities I agree. But there still is a basic core, structure, makeup, whatever you want to call it. Personality is mostly social behavior yet our primitive mind controls much of us too

wildflower…...good luck with this one. I think it might be a hopeless situation.

Nikipedia u said it best. Men and women are different

primitive you say….? You may have nailed it with that one.

oh the old the male has still not evolved thing. Nah. That’s not going to fly

not male in general…......I don’t generalise.

let’s not forget who made Adam take the forbiden fruit

Oh you mean in that fairy tale where the only two people were banished from the garden and went out in the world….....and was that before or after they parted from the group of primates?

oh so you saying you know me enuf to make accusations?

is that how you read it?

oh I agree it was a fairy tale. But instead a metaphor for what is true

is that how you presenting it?

Not accusing you – although I do find your views a bit disturbing.

I could say the same thing of you?

I am open to new thinking and theories…....I’m not closed off to ideas or absolute in my view….....you might even say it evolves

but hey, if that’s disturbing – then that’s what I am.

the question is more of who is right and who is wrong?? That we may never know. My whole point

The fact that you insist on one right and one wrong is my whole point….....it may have escaped your attention, but there is more than one type of man and more than one type of woman…...I would argue that there are as many types as there are specimens.

I agree with Wild in that things just aren’t that simple.
Nothing personal.

I have just read this entire thing since my last post. I agree with wildflower, not just because she makes complete sense, but the fact that i can actually read and understand her answer, and not have to play English teacher and re-read over and over the same 6 word answer to understand it. I believe they are different types with different “cores”. I can only come to this conclusion by looking at myself as an example.

Thanks – and considering I’m typing in my third language, I’ll take that as a compliment.