Girls do you care if your b/f looks at pornography?
There has been much debate with some friends of mine in school about weather or not it is cool that their b/f’s look at porn. Personally I dont care that mine does, it doesnt interfere with our relationship, and he doesn’t love the porn stars. He love me. But Im curious as to what other girls think.
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Sorry in advance; “weather it is cool” is a meteorological phrase. You mean “whether or not other girls object to their b/fs looking at porn.” Same dilemma, of course, even if the porn stars are hot.
wtf does all that mean? Is that a yes or a no?
How much? What guy doesn’t sometimes especially in the teen and young man years. When it is a problem is when it is a lot, all the time, he can’t make love unless he is watching porn, etc. If porn becomes an obsession, it interferes with a person’s ability to have real relationships.
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I don’t care. If I’m not satisfying his needs in that way I would much rather he look at porn than A. find another girl to do it or B. pressure or worse force me to take care of his needs in that area
Porn is only appealing to their sexual side, where as you appeal to their emotions and sex drive… unless porn interferes with your relationship i dont think its an issue at all.
and personally.. ill sit back and watch it with him… not cause it turns me on.. but because its pretty funny to crack jokes about it.
It doesn’t bother me.
Your grammar on the other hand…..
Doesn’t bother me in the slightest. His attachment to those girls is no greater (in fact I’m pretty sure it’s less) than mine to Patrick Swayze when I’m being nostalgic and watching Dirty Dancing….
@delirium >_< sorry for grammar, I really do try and watch for it.
I little bit of lighthearted snark never hurt anyone. ;) <3
But who decides what is lighthearted, what is repetitive, * what is incomprehensible,
what is defiantely the three millionth time a word has been missspppellled and what is cruel and *hurtful?
I’ve been with my b/f for 12yrs. and I don’t mind that he watches it from time to time. I know that he doesn’t have feelings for the women in the porn he watches, because he loves me. If it ever got to the point where his attention is on the porn during sex and not me…I’d definitly have a problem! Why is it that, even though we allow them to watch…in the end it hurts us somehow? If you have a relationship where you both can compromise with one another, there isn’t anything to worry about.
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