Learning the star patterns well enough to navigate and identify stuff takes a long time, like learning Spanish. Planetariums are great fun as are local astronomy clubs. But you need to know some stuff first. I wouldn’t use any online sites. You need a book with really good explanations, photos and sky maps to refer to, over and over, and drag outside, spill cocoa on, and refer to over and over (or is there an echo in here), like a road map.
I would suggest NIGHTWATCH, by Terence Dickinson. I took Astronomy 101 in 1954–55 in order to fulfill a science requirement, ended up w. it as my concentration, did research at the Harvard U Observatory for 7 years (for a salary) and have spent the next zillion years still learning. I use the book all the time. Get a piece of red cellophane to cover flashlight and then you can use it outside. Also Astronomical binocs…8×30ish, unless you have wrists like Aanold.
tecn is right; don’t waste your time unless you are somewhere w. good seeing. Also keep in mind that the human eye takes about 20 minutes to acclimate to the dark.
Try to use the two stars in outer side of the cup of the big dipper to point you to the North Star (Polaris), which is the top of the handle of the Little Dipper. That’s tonight’s homework :-)