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April 6th, 2009

dynamicduo said :

I see. I should have expected such a response from you ex wis.dmer. How ironic, that site title!

April 6th, 2009

dynamicduo said :

Are you for real? You sure you’re not a troll?

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• April 6th, 2009

  Do you feel threatened by your SO's exes?

  Just about everyone I know has dated everyone else or is friends with a friend/relative of theirs.:D :D :D Even though we are not monogamous, she doesn’t like some of my exs that are hanging around and vice versa. We learned to deal with it as it’s just not worth fighting about.
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• April 6th, 2009

  What causes us to be more easily exasperated with each other on online blogs/fluther/ect?

  @Blondesjon I have absolutely nothing so I replied with an insult and you are really bad at it. You accuse me of being a guy, I’ve always said traditional wifey/mummy things are really bad impersonations of human beings.
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• April 6th, 2009

  What causes us to be more easily exasperated with each other on online blogs/fluther/ect?

  @Blondesjon The only one I see spouting off option is you darling, I can provide sources to back up my points, can you do the same? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reciprocity_(social_psychology) overly simplistic but accurate. http://www.allacademic.com/meta/p_mla_apa_research_citation/1/1/7/2/9/p117296_index.html better, but more specific. BTW, being invited to the lady’s Sunday church social just don’t qualify as social capital in my book, try again.
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• April 6th, 2009

  What causes us to be more easily exasperated with each other on online blogs/fluther/ect?

  @chyna . Basic human kindness should be the reason for being nice That is a value, and not universally shared. That’s another reason for conflict/misunderstanding. Why should/would I adopt or even respect someone else’s values? What do I get out of it? Blanket reciprocity(I’ll be nice to you if you agree to be nice to me) only works with groups of people that are dependent on each other. If people are not(mutually dependent) they are in competition,and being nice has a cost associated with it, why should I pay if I can just take what I want for free, it’s not like I need or even like the other.
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• April 6th, 2009

  What causes us to be more easily exasperated with each other on online blogs/fluther/ect?

  Loser got it, the same reason it happens in real life, but real life has an out. We self-select ourselves into groupings of other people who are just like us by voting with our feet. There is more conflict on line as it’s one big community, the chances of running into someone(s) who is nothing like you increases by some obnoxious percentage. Where there are differences, there will be conflict, which is rarely pleasant. All the lurve in the universe won’t buy me a single tic tac, so why bother being nice for it.
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