I am not really back, just an insomniac. I will always answer PMs because they get sent to my email. But I don’t check questions much.
Once again, I’d like to thank the fluther community for the invaluable help and moral support in the past.
Update, March 2012: Things are still bad as far as my (first)daughter is concerned. I have a second one now though as well as two extremely naughty stepsons, which means I’m a full-time dad trying to make ends meet on half a salary. I’m trying to stay healthy and sane under circumstances which would send any normal person on a killing spree (I just can’t afford a machine gun, that’s all). I try to block out the violence and stupidity around me and enjoy all 4 of my children as much as I can, whenever I can, while keeping them as safe as possible.
I’ve decided to keep the orange picture for cak.