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• 3 hours ago

  What do about friend drama?

  What i learned a few years ago from very painful experience, is that a person isn’t ever two faced part time. I had a friend all through school, through a fair bit of adulthood, i am in my 40’s lol. Anyway, there were three of us, mates in school. and one friend was always going on about the other one behind her back. The other friend actually married her brother and then she would go on and on about both of them. Some of it pretty vicious. I would tell her to pack it in, that im not interested, go tell them to their face if she had a problem with them. Well, long story short. I found out that the running joke between these two friends (instigated by the friend who had always run the other one down) was that I was a “psycho junkie” because I’d had a breakdown and had to take anti depressants and pain meds for arthritis. Haven’t spoken to either of them now for a few years and if I went to my grave never having spoken to either of them again, well it wouldn’t be the worst thing in the world. If this friend is bad mouthing your other friends, chances are she’s doing it behind your back too, because two faced people are just two faced. What to do about it? just let it all go over the top of your head and stay out of it. Tell the friend that you don’t want to listen to it, if she has a problem with others, go talk to them about it, not put you in the middle. Life is too short honey. Take care of yourself, hugs xx
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• 3 hours ago

  Your S.O. says they want to tell you something important, but wants to do it on the Jerry Springer show. Do you agree to do it?

  Nothing makes me switch channels quicker than “reality” rubbish :-) that is to say the type of programme that rely on humiliating and embarrassing people for viewing figures. Yep, that also means I run in the opposite direction of stuff like “Strictly Come Dancing” and “The X Factor” and, god help us, “I’m a Celebrity Get Me Out of Here”. <shudder> just horrible, fake, awful <shudders some more>. That having been said, lots of people love these shows. So, different strokes for different folks and IDIC and all that. Would I go on the Jerry Springer show, er NO!! Hubby agrees with me on the whole reality tv thing so I know he’d never even suggest it (not even for a laugh). In the UK we have Trisha and the Jeremy Kyle show doing the Springer thing <shudder> It scares me that there are so many people in the world who are so lacking in shame or any form of dignity. The world has gone to hell in the past what? 40 years. It’s saddens me, really it does.
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• 4 hours ago

  What does your typical weekday night routine consist of?

  shower and get into jammies (I always feel grubby wheni get home from work) dinner, catch up with hubby about whats been happening that day for both of us, then I’ll read/answer email, surf for a while while hubby might be on his playstation for a while, then we’ll watch whichever of our shows is on that night. Favourites include House, Bones, Lie to Me, Supernatural, any of the Stargates, True Blood, recently got to see the second series of Spiral, which was beyond amazing. We waited forever to see the second series after flipping out over the first series. It’s French, with subtitles, and is just about the best thing I’ve seen in ages. Definitely a quality drama, and if anyone hasn’t seen it, do try you’ll love it. Also been watching a really good Canadian series on BBC2 (we’re up to episode 8 this weekend I think) called Defying Gravity. Our life isn’t an exciting life, but it’s a good one :-) hugs all xx
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• 19 hours ago

  How do you feel about dating a bald man?

  @Darwin <hugs> thank you so much foor the link, am off to check it out <more hugs> @proXXi I Love Fringe (funnily enough hubby and I both said that its definitely the X Files for the 00’s) and I agree Mitch would be amazing in it <hugs>
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• 20 hours ago

  What would you do when you realize that you're no longer physically attracted to your SO?

  Sex is very important in a relationship, but its not the be all and end all, or it shouldn’t be. Hubby is everything I find attractive in a man, and even after all these years he just has to smile at me to make my heart race. I swear, its not right how much I love that man, or how much he affects me, but if for some reason we ever can’t, due to illness or accident or whatever god forbid, have sex ever again, well we’d cope. We have so much more together than just the physical side of our relationship and if we lost that, well, I’m sure we’d fill the void quite easily. Also, as we get older our physical needs change too. Just because you’re doing it twice a week or whatever instead of every day or not thinking about it every minute, it doesn’t mean the spark has gone out. Many couples stop having sex when they get elderly (and many elderly couples don’t stop which is great too) but they stay together. Maybe it comes down to how strong your relationship is? Regarding your friend’s situation. Maybe this problem isn’t permanent? Maybe they just have to spend more time together, re-connect emotionally, see what they first saw in each other, what attracted them to each other. Maybe then the rest might sort itself? The fact that your friend is concerned about this, means the relationship is important enough to him to be worth saving, so it’s maybe worth a try. hugs xx
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