when you are on a computer could I get the link please?

High standards, Low expectations! you hit it right on the nose. Thank you so much for your answer to my question. It is good to see that I am not alone and tripping by myself.

Kimberly

Thanks Hearkat. Yes NICU is amazing! Heres just a crazy tidbit to the story.My fiance is from Australia & I was over there meeting the family for the first time when she got sick, so her and our baby Olivia are there in AUS.Our baby is not quite a month old but so far so good..actually she is very good. So here I am back at home in San Diego & going back next month again.Anyway, I thought I’d share that with you :)
Take care

Thanks for the great advice. It was the most grounded advice I’ve seen on Fluther in a while. I took a long hot bath while submerging my ears. Then was able to get quite a bit of wax out using a q-tip. My hearing back to normal today.

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