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• 1 month ago

  How should I deal with not being invited to a wedding?

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• 1 month ago

  How should I deal with not being invited to a wedding?

  Update: I’ve had a note from the bride. “you are so sweet. i’m telling you, this whole inviting people thing was ROUGH. everything else was a breeze but figuring out how we could pull the peeps together was the most difficult part. you will certainly be missed and your sweet note is much appreciated!” She went on to tell me that no gift was necessary, but then listed all the places they were registered. Instead, I will be making a donation in their name to a local charity that I am much fond of. I had a good laugh when she wrote that i “will certainly be missed” as if I was choosing not to come. Once again, thanks, faithful jellyfish. You have been very helpful to me. Here’s what I’m taking from this unfortunate situation: Difficult decisions have consequences. Sometimes people suck.
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• 1 month ago

  How should I deal with not being invited to a wedding?

  Thanks everyone. Still no word from the bride, but I’ll let you know. You all have been really helpful, if only to put my mind at ease about being hurt. I know now that I am justified in that. I think I’ll stick around. I like it here…;)
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• 1 month ago

  How should I deal with not being invited to a wedding?

  I just sent the bride this: Hey. I know you’ve got a lot on your plate right now, but I just wanted you to know, I’m not mad that I wasn’t invited. I understand that you both have very big families and lots of other friends and I’m sure the list was just too big. I would, however, like to send you a gift to show how much you both mean to me. I know you’re registered at Williams Sonoma. Anywhere else? Much love, Did I act too harshly?
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• 1 month ago

  How should I deal with not being invited to a wedding?

  @wildpotato Neither the bride or the groom are flutherers, but I am pretty well known here. I have nerver been romantically involved with either of them. I just think that they had to make cuts in the list and can’t belive that I was one who was cut. Surely there had to be some third cousin who could have fallen by the wayside…
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• 1 month ago

  How should I deal with not being invited to a wedding?

  Thanks Auggie. I mean, Stranger on the internet.
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