When do you truly know that divorce is the only thing left?

When you fight daily (or every-other-day, at best) and the word “divorce” is thrown around loosely, when is enough enough? It seems there must be a breaking point and everyone has to evaluate their own relationship…but what if you’re a “fixer” or someone of that nature? It’s always easier (not healthier) to convince yourself things will change. I’m currently wearing my Wish Bone where my Backbone should be…so what if I need to schedule the necessary transplant and what about consultation or pre-op treatment?