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If your dream mate stepped unexpectedly into your life, what would you think?

Asked by 6rant6 (13672points) December 3rd, 2010

Let’s just suppose that you have a list of what your perfect other half would be.

Not the list of “What would most likely fit me?” but “What would a dream made flesh be like?” Someone so special that you’d have to say, there would be little they would see in you.

Now suppose that person shows more than active interest in you. A lot of interest.

What would you image was happening? How would you react? What would you do if you were already in a relationship?

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CyanoticWasp's avatar

She did. Then she stepped out again, too. It’s like to kill me.

6rant6's avatar

@CyanoticWasp Ah, the age old two step.

mrentropy's avatar

It’s not going to happen.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

Here is my reaction caught on film! ;)

marinelife's avatar

I don’t know what I would do.

Scooby's avatar

I’m currently available, albeit I do have some very close friends who might get their noses pushed out a little.. :-/
Ermmm, I’d most likely get that pile of washing & ironing done & tidy the place up a bit before she came round to my place, fluff the spuds up (cats) make sure they had a nice grooming, looking presentable…..Mmmm “what would I imagine was happening” you say!? :-/
I imagine, I’d be getting me bloody leg over mate, I’ll tell ya!! Lol.. ;-)

Dog's avatar

It happened and it has been amazing ever since.

HearTheSilence's avatar

To be perfectly honest… I’m so shy and such a cynical that I would do nothing. I guess it comes with the stigma of dealing with so much heartache.

Coloma's avatar

I don’t want another half to tend to. haha

There is no ‘other half’.
Two halves don’t make a whole in the case of relationship. lol

And, there are no dream mates, only dream projections. hahaha
Aaah, the voice of maturity….now, back to doing my own thing. lol

ducky_dnl's avatar

I would probably explode. I’m just kidding. I’d probably be very happy and every problem would just fade.

Afos22's avatar

I would break up with my current; And go after my dream. duh lol. Step on it

crazyivan's avatar

I dreamed of a perfect girl and found one even better. Don’t get hung up on your dream mate. Somebody is probably more perfect for you. If you’ll permit me the indulgence, this is a lyric from a song I wrote for my wife on our 12th anniversary:

I had an image in my mind of a woman so divine,
that the goddess would evy her and gods would be struck blind,
every quality defined; she must be patient, cute and kind,
with an effervescent temprement I knew I’d never find…

I’d given up on this infinite chore,
I wanted less but I settled for more.
I wanted all I could imagine…
But I settled for more.

wundayatta's avatar

It happened and I had to say no because it wouldn’t have been fair to her, and I’ve been regretting it ever since.

Neizvestnaya's avatar

It did happen to me a few years back and I was thrilled! He was an adult over 35yrs old, loved reading, writing, traveling, humor, great music, traveling- no drugs, no kids, no ex wife troubles, no weird habits. He was crazy about me, respected me, appreciated me, was so proud of me and to be with me. We were excited to get busy building a simple but exciting life together, one we felt each of us had always wanted, had waited long for, both holding out for the right person to bring it into fruition.

Then, his dreaminess faded as each day he became more and more a stranger until just an image and distant bittersweet memory.

Paradox's avatar

I was going to tell the story but I decided not to. I better not. Yes there was a dream girl that bacame reality to me. Then it turned into a nightmare. End of story. Be careful for what you wish for it might come true.

Cruiser's avatar

I’d start looking around for the 2011 convertible Camaro and 5 million bucks the Genie also promised me!

Coloma's avatar

@Cruiser

lol

I want Jeannies bottle, wait..I already live in it!

Haleth's avatar

It takes a long time to really know if someone’s right for you. So I’d probably know the person for a long time before realizing they were “dreamy.” It might be someone I already know!

harple's avatar

He has, and I’m loving it! :-D

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