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(NSFW) What are some good tips for a good sexual experience?

Asked by Eggie (5921points) December 23rd, 2010

I have engaged in sex before and I have had some good experiences but I would just like to know what kind of experiences if any would make your girlfriend satisfied and want to keep coming back for more. Also if you have any ideas on how to keep it up longer that would be helpful. Please be as graphic as you want.

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deni's avatar

TEASING.

Seelix's avatar

Relax. There’s nothing more awkward than a sexual experience where one partner is so tense that they can’t enjoy themselves fully.

MyNewtBoobs's avatar

Honestly, I couldn’t give less of a shit if you come soon so long as you don’t let that be the end of things for me as well. And if you want me to be happy as Larry (however happy he is…), then cunnilingus is a great way to do that. Explore her entire body – fingers, behind the knees, tummy, neck, ears, wrists, etc – not just the parts covered by a bikini.

marinelife's avatar

Don’t rush—take your time. Build up to entering her.

Jude's avatar

Hot, yummy, intense eye contact/flirting/shagging.

To get ‘er going.

everephebe's avatar

Foreplay, and trial & error. Practice makes perfect.

BoBo1946's avatar

For sex, go outside when it raining “cats and dogs” and find a secluded mud hole and f*ck her brains out. (Wear old clothes and tear them off each other)

If you want to make love, cook her a wonderful meal with a couple of glasses of wine, write her a beautiful poem, tell her how beautiful she is, look deeply into her eyes when you are talking to her, and then, to the bedroom and VERY slowly make mad passionate love to her.

jazmina88's avatar

no expectations…..be free….relax..dont overthink it

Summum's avatar

Just give of yourself how you would want her to give to you.

Seaofclouds's avatar

Talk to her about what she likes and wants. You might be surprised by some of the things she’s been wanting to try but afraid to bring up before.

Pay attention to how she responds to each thing that you do to her. Linger in the areas that seem to get more of a reaction out of her.

As far as lasting longer, slow down or stop for a moment when you feel yourself getting close. Use that time as an opportunity to perform oral or change positions.

Trillian's avatar

Have a partner.

JustJessica's avatar

I can’t stress how important foreplay is! Oh and maybe you might wanna jack off a couple times before hand, get the first few out of the way!

HungryGuy's avatar

Have plenty of rope nearby :-p

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

Do not always do the same things, surprise is a good element for me.

FutureMemory's avatar

Don’t be afraid to try new things. Scratch that, be eager to try new things.

Don’t be shy. Ask for what you want.

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