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Do girls mean it when they say they'll go lesbian for another girl?

Asked by chelle21689 (6898points) January 12th, 2011

I’m in no way against gay rights but I think it’s so annoying to hear another girl say “I’m straight, but I’ll definitely go lesbian for _____. I’d love to hook up with her”

Really? You’re straight but you’d go lesbian for some other female? If you are, then you’re bi or lesbian…not straight. If a guy were to say this then he’d definitely be considered gay. I just hate when so many girls “act” bi or pretend to be “bi” because it’s considered cool or sexy.

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Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

I think they can say anything they want but when faced with a vagina, they’d drop the subject. You are right, of course, in noticing that girls are allowed to say such things and guys aren’t because women’s sexual actions with other women are seen as not threatening.

Kardamom's avatar

Unless a girl is gay or bi or has some kind of “experimental” tendencies, then no. I’ve said it myself, but it just means that I think that girl is really beautiful or sexy. Straight guys, say it about men too, but probably not as often as women say it about women.

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

I think that a lot of young women say things like that to gain attention from men. (Not all, but I do think that is often the case.)
I think @Simone_De_Beauvoir hit the nail on the head. “When faced with a vagina….”

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

@TheOnlyNeffie I know what I’m talking about, I’ve been there. It was my vagina.

Vincent_Lloyd's avatar

haha you know I think I sorta agree with @Kardamom and also with @Simone_De_Beauvoir since it’s totaly true. But I can’t really say or speak for all women. But I know for sure that my sister has said that before. I don’t find being gay nor bi is a big issue. They’re not doing any harm so society itself..But meh it’s mostly since she’s very attractive and suppar sexay. But I think it’s all just an attraction not really a sexual urge to…Go up and get some things done with her….(remember this is all my own opinion)

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Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

@Vincent_Lloyd “They’re not doing any harm so society itself” – thanks, I feel so much better now.

Blackberry's avatar

It’s just a saying….calm down.

chelle21689's avatar

I’m sure there are pet peeves, I have the right to feel this way =P

Blackberry's avatar

Indeed : )

izziebear1's avatar

i means they have some kind of attraction, physical or emotional, towards another female. They’d date them, or have intercourse?

Vincent_Lloyd's avatar

@Simone_De_Beauvoir wait…Are you being sarcastic O.O

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