How to send someone on a guilt trip but not ruin a relationship or have an argument?

I want to send someone on a guilt trip but at the same time I don’t want to have a fight or ruin or affect the relationship.Its just that I want the other person to not to treat me like in a way that I don’t like or not to treat me like s**t.

So what would be the basic procedure of doing this? It would be easier to understand if you explain using specific type of phrases or short sentences that must be used.
And/or give a detailed example of how you yourself did it? Did it work?
I most probably will have to do this on phone.