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tedd's avatar

How many people have you kissed/done X sexual acts with?

Asked by tedd (14058points) January 21st, 2011

I was talking with a friend and we compared our “numbers” and I’m wondering what an average of sorts might be, so where better to go. So answer with how many people you’ve kissed (romantically or otherwise, like one of mine was a musical kiss), done something intimate involving touching “private” areas, done oral sex with, and finally regular sex with. Obviously you’re welcome to just divulge a few of them if you so choose…. Please include your age and sex too…...and for reasons not worth getting into I’m withholding my own numbers…. my friends though were 16 – 10 – 9 – 9, and she is 24.

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JustJessica's avatar

Do I count myself?

tedd's avatar

@JustJessica I mean, I guess YOU can, and I’ll just correct your numbers downward by one, lol.

Vunessuh's avatar

I’ve only had sexual intercourse (or as you call it, regular sex) with one person.
I’ve kissed maybe around 10 people. At least half of them when I was drunk.
I’ve fooled around without having actual sex with only 2 people.
I’m not very sexually active at all and I’m cool with that. :)

As the Spartan cheerleaders would say from SNL, ”sex can wait, masturbate.” XD

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

I have no idea how many people I have kissed – I’d say definitely above a hundred. I’ve had sex with a dozen or so people (in terms of what I consider sex) and oral sex with dozens of people.

deni's avatar

Mine are probably somewhere around 12 – 7 – 3 – 2. I’m 21.

I can’t have sex with just anyone. It’s way too mental for me.

Lightlyseared's avatar

I’m embarrassed to say I’ve lost count. Some, I can’t even remember their name which is a bit worrying.

Arbornaut's avatar

Honestly, this is not something iv kept track of…

klutzaroo's avatar

Lol, plenty. No need to shock anyone.

Adirondackwannabe's avatar

I don’t really keep track of my history. As long as I’m loyal to the one I’m with that’s good enough for me.

wundayatta's avatar

I’m with the “I’ve forgotten” crowd. Sorry. But I’m 54 and a lot has already gone, and more goes all the time. But if you want an easy contest to win, challenge me in “I remember this….”

starboyg's avatar

Mine are 3, 1, 1, 1. I don’t get out around much.

Seelix's avatar

I have no idea how many people I’ve kissed. I doubt it’s over a hundred, but more than 50 for sure. I’ve had sex with 7 people. Fooled around with lots more.

wundayatta's avatar

I know a woman who has written down everyone she’s ever fucked. She was over 100, when we last discussed it. And no, I was not one of them.

Do these numbers mean anything? I mean, are you going to measure yourself against the average? Feel like you’ve missed out on something? Just idle curiosity or “academic” interest?

And why isn’t phone sex or internet sex on your list?

JustJessica's avatar

300–200-50–65 You guess the order! I’m 32. These numbers are totally fiction!

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

I didn’t know that I was supposed to be keeping track. I’m honestly not even sure. I know how many people I’ve had sex with, and it is a single digit number, but as for the rest.. I have no idea. Oh, and I’m 28.

ucme's avatar

In one night? How’sa guy supposed to keep track, I mean come on ;¬}

wundayatta's avatar

“In one night?” Now that’s a number I remember! ;-)

LuckyGuy's avatar

Of course the answer is 1, 1, 1, 1. It’s always that, no matter who I’m with.
(As it should be.)

I have 2 kids so I will admit to having sex twice. And I enjoyed it a lot both times.
I’m over 50.

TexasDude's avatar

Here’s my run-down, because I really don’t care all that much if the internet knows…

Kissed: 6
“Private” fondling: 3
Oral: 2
Banged: 2

I’m pretty inexperienced compared to just about everyone I know… most of them are in the double digits or more… I don’t know if there is something about my area, or if they are just lying.

shego's avatar

Yeah I know crazy, but hey having some “personal private time” is totally worth it.

sliceswiththings's avatar

Ha a friend and I made detailed charts of the people we’d hooked up with, with columns stating age, location, the person’s attractiveness level, etc. etc.

I’m not going to go dig that up (and update it!) but I am female, 22, and have had sex with 20 people. But 8, if anyone asks.

LuckyGuy's avatar

@sliceswiththings 8? Not 1? And don’t forget to add the caveat of “And it was never as wonderful as this.”

mowens's avatar

I’ve lost count. :(

But I admit I have a problem.

ryan9305's avatar

Kissed- Can’t even remember There has been way to many. If i had to guess i would say probably between 500–600 girls.

Fondling- Maybe between 400–450

Oral- I have only ever gone down on 12 girls but the amount of girls the other way is impossible for me to tell you.

And “real sex” – 326

And I know what a lot of you are gonna say is that there is no way but it is true. And if you think its gross or whatever just know that i do not have any kind of S.T.D.‘s. I know because i go get checked every month. I just like to have fun ok. And college was very fun for me. And just a plus about me is I have a very good memory and could still tell you every one of there names.

Oh, and I am a 24 year old male.

genkan's avatar

I’ve kissed 4, and I don’t want to kiss just anybody. One girl pulled off her top but I didn’t ask for that. That’s all. I’m 19.

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