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(NSFW) Are there any sexual fantasies that you will not tolerate?

Asked by Mikewlf337 (6262points) January 28th, 2011

What sexual fantasies will you not tolerate? Why will you not tolerate them?

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Blondesjon's avatar

Anything involving children and if that’s not self explanatory then I have no time for you.

Mikewlf337's avatar

That is self explanatory and I agree with you 100%

jca's avatar

To me, if it’s someone else’s fantasy, I can’t control it. I can’t control what turns someone on or does not turn them on. Therefore, what I will tolerate or not tolerate is not an issue.

I can control who I will associate with, but what is in people’s minds, if someone else tries to control it, the person may not disclose said fantasy in the future, but they will still fantasize about that topic.

Blackberry's avatar

I couldn’t pretend to rape any woman I was involved with. That’s pretty self explanatory too, I think lol.

DominicX's avatar

You mean to act out? There’s a lot of sexual things I wouldn’t do…

IWillDrinkYourBoneMarrow's avatar

I am not fond of being asked to play someone’s “daddy”. Not into incest, real or imagined.

Cruiser's avatar

I draw the line at the use of power tools and red finger paint and magic markers!

lillycoyote's avatar

@Cruiser So that means you’re O.K. with tap and die sets, nanotechnology and full scale nuclear war?

fundevogel's avatar

So long as it’s just fantasy I don’t condemn anything, it’s not until things start getting acted on that I start drawing lines. Though I don’t think I could personally be in a relationship with someone that had fantasies that repulsed me. Obviously that’s a compatibility issue.

XOIIO's avatar

No rape

Nothing involving family or incest. I jacked some porn off my friends PC over teamviewer, it was some really fucked up shit.

Nothing with fecal matter or piss, anything fucked up.

No BDSM in the extreme, that stuff is just wrong.

Nothing involving food although I would tolerate whipped cream ;)

Anything with anal directed at me, and anal just seems wierd in general. Bad, bad things could happen.

I can’t think of anything else, I’m more the person who would give a hot oil massage.

downtide's avatar

Children. Animals. Rape. Necrophilia. Those are the things I won’t tolerate even in others.

On a personal basis, I couldn’t get involved in anything that involves me being submissive to another, or subjected to any kind of pain. Those are a total turn-off for me. Also, bodily excretions, ewww. But I don’t care if others do these things.

XOIIO's avatar

@downtide Totally agree with animals and necrophillia. Kids should just be expected in peoples out list.

Cruiser's avatar

@lillycoyote Those I consider foreplay! XD

WillWorkForChocolate's avatar

I do not tolerate or approve of any fantasies involving:

family
children
animals
kitchen appliances :P
licking my toes (someone else’s toes are fine)
golden showers
scat
extreme submissive pain fantasies (like strangulation, electrocution, burning, etc…)

Most other stuff is okay with me.

Neizvestnaya's avatar

Nothing involving children, animals, dwarves, rape or poo.

WillWorkForChocolate's avatar

@Neizvestnaya No dwarves? You take all the fun out of it! What about gnomes?

IWillDrinkYourBoneMarrow's avatar

@Neizvestnaya Are you racist against short people?

Mikewlf337's avatar

@Neizvestnaya Dwarves need love too! I am not a dwarf by the way :D

Neizvestnaya's avatar

I was once traumatized seeing a dwarf porn and now… well, it’s not for me.

bunnygrl's avatar

nothing involving in any way, shape or form, children or animals. Any scenarios involving physical violence or rape are also no nos.

Blondesjon's avatar

@Neizvestnaya . . . it’s ok. dwarves are make believe anyway.

WillWorkForChocolate's avatar

—@Blondesjon How dare you!! Have you even SEEN Lord of the Rings? It was a documentary, you know.

Blueroses's avatar

Few things are on my absolute “no-go” list.
Gimp gear, ball gags, pony play, incest, adult babies, dressing up like plush animals, skewering/cutting…
Even if I loved my partner dearly, those are pretty much guaranteed deal breakers.

incendiary_dan's avatar

It makes me unpopular sometimes, but I won’t stand for anything involving domination and abuse, or the imitation of it. It disgusts me how often people normalize abusive relationships in this culture, and that doesn’t change in the bedroom. It’s also particularly strange to me how often people who are otherwise entirely anti-authoritarian in every aspect of life let this one slide through some strange concept of acceptance.

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