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Boyfriend Likes Seeing Me Squish Bugs?

Asked by RichmondGirl (24points) January 31st, 2011

My boyfriend likes and gets turned on when I step on bugs and insects, especially if I am wearing high heels or dressy flats. Even though I have no problem stepping on and squashing bugs, have any of the other women on this board ever experienced this or would you care if a guy got hot seeing you squish a bug?

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appletea1991's avatar

No I have never experienced that, but if my hubby liked that sort of thing, i would think it was awkward but i would not mind it.

RichmondGirl's avatar

Thanks Appletea. So, if you and your husband were walking along and you were wearing heels and there was a bug crawling in your path, knowing your husband liked seeing you step on bugs, you would go ahead and change your stride so you squashed the bug under your shoe as you walked over him? So, I take it you do not have any problems squashing bugs underfoot if you are wearing high heels?

Deja_vu's avatar

A friend of mine once worked for a foot fetish site, and she got fired for not steping on bugs. She once got a request to step on a toad in her bare feet and she refused. Now she has her porn site. Anyways, if your down. I think it’s ok.

crisw's avatar

Abusing any living thing for sexual gratification is not something to encourage. Have him find a different kink- or find another guy. Crush fetishists often go from wanting to see insects killed to getting off on the killing of small mammals such as kittens and the like- videos of which were recently banned.

Kardamom's avatar

I think it’s pretty sickening too. A lot of people think it’s ok to crush bugs, and although it isn’t on the same level as killing dogs and cats, it’s still cruel to kill them when they’re not harming you. When I have spiders or other bugs in my house, I go out of my way to take them outside without harming them. I do my best to be respectful of other living creatures. The idea of having someone get off on killing them is sick and frightening.

It makes me think that this person simply doesn’t have respect for life. Squashing bugs for fun and sexual pleasure is abusive.

appletea1991's avatar

I would not go out of my way to kill a bug for him, But if there was like a spider in the house i would squash it. I know it is wrong but I kill spiders when i see them in the house. Seeing a black widow freaks me out, i panic and before you know it its dead lol.

faye's avatar

I find it distinctly weird and wouldn’t be with the guy.

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