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(NSFW) Given the chance to experience having sex as the other gender (purely temporary, not as a sex change) would you be able to resist?

Asked by Earthgirl (11214points) February 1st, 2011

Do you think it would make you a better lover? What do you think you would gain, if anything, from the experience?

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El_Cadejo's avatar

Id do it in a heartbeat.

Im quite envious of girls ability to have multiple orgasms as well as different kinds of orgasms.

LuckyGuy's avatar

Sign me up! Women have so many parts to choose from.

Earthgirl's avatar

C’mon guys though! answer the second part of the question! Would it make you a better lover?

wundayatta's avatar

I wouldn’t do it so it wouldn’t make me a better lover. See, the problem is that I’d have to get up close and personal with a guy, and I’m just not into guys. Having female anatomy wouldn’t make a bit of difference.

coffeenut's avatar

I’ll pass

Earthgirl's avatar

wundayatta Hey! OK, for the sake of the question, when you become a woman you have a woman’s psyche and not just her body. You are not a man in a woman’s body. You truly get to experience what it is like to be female! Including the desire for men. :)

Plucky's avatar

I’d totally go for it. I take it we are talking about straight or bisexual people? So, yes, I think it would help even the best lovers out there become better ones :)

wundayatta's avatar

@Earthgirl Nice try, but if it weren’t me in the other body, what would be the point? If I had a woman’s perspective on the world and if I related to others as a woman does, it wouldn’t be me in a woman’s body. It would be some woman who had a lot of problems, who hated her body, and probably wouldn’t let anyone touch her. She’s stay at home eating ice cream instead of hanging out in some bar dressed in clothes that leave virtually nothing to the imagination.

absalom's avatar

As a gay man, I’d be all for it. I’m sure I would also enjoy turning into a gay woman for a day.

shego's avatar

Well since you said that I would have the mind of a man, I might actually try it. But I think the best part would be that I would have a bit of insight on what makes a guy tic. But I don’t think it would make me a lover.

Earthgirl's avatar

I have to say I am surprised by these answers. But I guess that makes it a good question. uberbatman I am with you! I say go for it. Hasn’t anyone ever had the experience where you were making love and almost couldn’t distinguish who was who? I guess not…..I did once and I will never forget it. It would be even more intense if it were really switching places literally.
wundayatta “Nice try”??? Think about it.

ETpro's avatar

Inquiring minds want to know. I wouldn’t miss the chance on a bet.

What would I gain. Knowing how it feels to be on the other end of what I do in love-making. And knowing that just might make me a better lover.

faye's avatar

I’d do it. I’ve often wondered about being male. Of course, I get to be tall, husky and hung, right? I’d love to see what a BJ is like in the feel good idea.

Cruiser's avatar

If it was me on top of me I am all in!! WOOF! ;)

Earthgirl's avatar

whoa, Cruiser Narcissism Reigns Eternal! Sounds like confidence. Let’s assume if it wasn’t you it would be another good lover, lol

ETpro's avatar

@Cruiser I’m all for that, too. That would be some seriously high octane masturbation. :-)

zenvelo's avatar

like most of the people, I’d try it in a heartbeat. and yes, I think it would make me a better lover, nothing like knowing where all the best erogenous zones are.

Earthgirl's avatar

This question is begging for another question, which would be, what do men find scarier, the idea of having the body of a woman or the psyche of a woman?!

DominicX's avatar

I think it would be really interesting. And I’m talking about a vagina here, not anal sex…I know that theoretically I could easily do that, but I’m really not interested…

Earthgirl's avatar

DominicX Of course, that is a given. I guarantee it would be “interesting” at the very least.

ETpro's avatar

@Earthgirl As to your other question, I don’t find either scary. I’d love to be able to put my consciousness into a pretty female body and “take her for a test drive” so long as doing that didn’t involve violating another consciousness’ rights..

@DominicX In fact, I think a decent percentage of women completely agree that anal sex holds no interest for them. Of course, not all feel that way. I am glad that’s so, as being the active partner in that act feels wonderful. Sooooo tight.

ducky_dnl's avatar

Eh, I’m not interested in sex, so I could easily resist the opportunity.

Pandora's avatar

Nope, I would worry I may feel weird later. Plus if my husband was still a guy then I would feel weird about having sex with another dude and he would probably not want to have sex with me even if it was temporary.
And if he turned to a chick and I had sex with him then I would feel weird after we both changed. I’ll probably have flashbacks of his boobs and private areas and that would just blow sex for the both of us forever. For me to learn anything I would have to feel like myself (like a girl) acting as a guy. Wouldn’t work. I would probably need therapy later. We both would.
Besides I love being female.

Earthgirl's avatar

Pandora Lol, thanks for your thoughful answer. You really examined the repercussions of it! I love being female too! Key word is temporary!!!!

Pandora's avatar

@Earthgirl Yeah, I know it would be temporary only the damage to my mind may not be so I just wouldn’t risk my sanity for anything.

creepermax's avatar

Been there done that. Male orgasm=better. So yes, I would resist the temptation again. But not initially.

downtide's avatar

What’s this “purely temporary” rubbish? I’m making mine permanent.

sleepdoc's avatar

I would welcome the idea… to be able to experience what things are you like for your partner to some degree… bring it on.

Earthgirl's avatar

sleepdoc Not just “to some degree”, exactly how they would, that is,as a gender, not as a person. I think it’s irresistable. But then, that’s me. I understand it wouldn’t be everyone’s cup of tea.

sleepdoc's avatar

@Earthgirl well there are always individual’s experiences which vary from the whole. But the idea of at least getting to experience “the other side” so to speak would be great in my mind.

Supacase's avatar

Yes, without a doubt. It probably would make me a better lover, but I would honestly be doing it for purely selfish reasons.

ucme's avatar

Oh yeah…...god…..yes…...yes…ooh yeah…...that’ll work…...yes…..yes…..yeah!!!
I dunno, maybe ;¬}

OpryLeigh's avatar

I would definitely do it. I would also like to experience having a pee as a bloke.

wundayatta's avatar

I have spent a lot of time in my life trying to understand what woman’s experiences are like. I express myself in a way that makes some people believe I am a woman. It’s not by any means a comprehensive understanding. Actually, now that I think about it, it’s the idea of having sex with a man that bothers me. If I didn’t have to have an intimate relationship with a man, I probably would try it.

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