How to get female friend to initiate phone calls?

You don’t get too much in this world without asking for it. Ask her; what can you lose?

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send her a text message saying “call me!!”

First, you need to know that you can’t change anyone else’s behavior.

That said, you can tell her that you would like her to call you once in a awhile. Tell her that it hurts you that she doesn’t ever call.

I don’t think I can add much to what’s been said….So I ditto the above and agree that you can’t control what she does, but you can share your desire to hear from her more often. In fact, you are likely to have the opposite happen if you try to force it…..

Do you know if she calls other people? Some people hate talking on the telephone, and it never occurs to them to call people.

Why don’t you just call her??? :-/