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(NSFW) Have you ever achieved an orgasm from stimulation both sexes can experience equally?

Asked by ETpro (34605points) February 8th, 2011

No cheating here. Kissing certainly qualifies. Heavy petting counts, but only if it doesn’t include any contact with or pressure, vibration, etc. on the genitals. The plumbing is different, so that violates the equal experience rule. Nipple play or sucking works. Anal stimulation works so long as the male’s prostate isn’t involved. Prostate massage doesn’t count.

Can you think of any equal opportunity practices I missed? Which, if any, have gotten you to a genitals free orgasm? How was it, if you don’t mind sharing?

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TexasDude's avatar

Heavy petting with no actual real sexual contact has gotten me off a lot quicker than actual sex has on several occasions. Is that weird?

FutureMemory's avatar

I’ve never jizzed without having my dick touched, no.

crisw's avatar

Dreaming.

ETpro's avatar

@Fiddle_Playing_Creole_Bastard Real heavy petting is Way Cool isn’t it. Or HOT!

@FutureMemory Thanks. Something to look forward to.

@crisw Great one. Many of us have been there. And yes, for guys the term wet dream is accurate. It’s a full-blown orgasm all right. That shows that the mind alone can do the trick.

wundayatta's avatar

I have found that proper use of the phone can lead to some amazing orgasms on both ends of the line. Like mindblowingly amazing!

ETpro's avatar

@wundayatta I can see I have some work to do on better use of the phone. Those sort of results might justify the bills I keep getting from Verizon. As @crisw pointed out, sometimes igreat sex is all in the mind.

Dr_Lawrence's avatar

The clitoris and the head of the penis are biologically and functionally analogous. Do to one what can be done to the other and the big “O” can be expected.

ETpro's avatar

@Dr_Lawrence Certainly similar, though I would dispute their being analogous. But equating one to the other violates the spirit of my question and takes all the fun out of it. You don’t want the guilt of taking the fun out of sex on your hands, do you? :-)

ucme's avatar

We’ve both come into sum money before…......nice! ;¬}

Odysseus's avatar

I have an overly spiritual friend who claims to have done this joint orgasm thing with sensual massage then some sort of twiddling with the back of each others knees !
But I doubt it can be done without being High on drugs.

downtide's avatar

I have never had a genitals-free orgasm. I didn’t know it was even possible.

TexasDude's avatar

@ETpro, either adjective works for me!

Jude's avatar

Nipple play/sucking.

OpryLeigh's avatar

I’ve orgasmed but nipple stimulation alone.

ETpro's avatar

@downtide I’ve done it, so you probably can too. Look at how many of the respondents here have. What’re you waiting for. Get busy not touching yourself!

@Jude & @Leanne1986 Very cool. That I have not achieved. But I’m open to it. I’m secure enough in my masculinity I wouldn’t feel it wasn’t manly enough.

augustlan's avatar

I’m totally jealous. It’s hard enough even with the usual stimulation, for me!

crisw's avatar

@ETpro

I read some studies a while back that most women but only about 50% of men actually have nipple sensitivity. This is one such study. Hope you are one of the lucky ones :>)

choreplay's avatar

I guess I’ll be the first male to jump in, aaammm, I could be categorized with Jude and Leanne on this subject, not to the point of climax but damm close.

This question was skirting around this same subject.

http://www.fluther.com/110193/where-is-your-most-sensitive-part-of-your-body/

downtide's avatar

My nipples are fairly sensitive but in an unpleasant, annoying, make-it-stop way, rather than a pleasant, sensual, don’t-stop way.

FutureMemory's avatar

@downtide Indeed! My nipples need a Do Not Touch sign.

ETpro's avatar

@crisw My nipples are quite sensitive. I think that enough attention there might do it, but that’s not how I’ve made it so far. My non-genital wins have been with heavy petting, anal stimulation and of course, wet dreams. Not sure those count, as they are solo (at least I think they are).

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