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Do you mend/repair your clothing?

Asked by BarnacleBill (16123points) February 10th, 2011

Do you fix your clothing when it incurs minor damage (lost button, hem comes out, seam rips, small holes)? Do you wear it damaged? Throw/give it away? Pay to have the repairs made? Toss it into a mending pile, and forget about it?

I’ve noticed a few people of late wearing clothes held together with staples or safety pins, and I’m wondering if minor mending is a lost art.

I learned to mend things from my mother. I don’t intend this question to be judgemental. The first time someone told me they were going to throw something away because a seam split, I was completely baffled.

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lucillelucillelucille's avatar

I fix it.
I did however, recently shrink a wool dress so that it will now fit my cat.
I wish I knew how to fix that.:(

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

Yes, I do mend my own (and my husband’s) clothing. Seems so wasteful to give it up over a simple repair, that’s just not my style.

jonsblond's avatar

I can’t sew, but I can mend. We don’t have the money to toss clothes aside. I’m glad I paid attention when my mother taught me how to fix minor repairs. Sorry I didn’t pay attention when she used her sewing machine.

tinyfaery's avatar

Bwahaha. If I need a button sewn my wife does it. Most things with holes or small tears I will continue to wear. If something major happens, and the clothing item isn’t something I love or paid a lot for, that item becomes a
cleaning rag. If I really want something fixed I go to my favorite tailor. Her prices are very reasonable.

And anyway, if you buy good quality clothing hems do not come loose and seams do not rip. I prefer to have things that are less likely to become tattered.

iamthemob's avatar

This is a great question, @BarnacleBill, as I don’t think people mend/repair enough as a result of consumerism.

I am trying to learn to do this more. “Repurposing” is my knew “throwing it away.”

JLeslie's avatar

Yes. Buttons, or if a seam opens up, I mend them. I do it for my husband as well. When I first was dating my husband I one day found him darning his socks. That surprised me. You don’t see that often, even back then it was unusual. I remembering stating, half questioning to him, “you are darning your socks?” And, he didn’t even know the word. This is a man who was driving a BMW at the time, and wearing a Cartier watch. He doesn’t darn socks anymore, but he still has this type of attitude to care for his possesions and repair them when possible, rather than just discarding things.

bobbinhood's avatar

I repair my clothes. My fiance can replace buttons himself, but other than that, I repair his clothes as well. I even occasionally buy things that have a problem or don’t quite fit the way they are designed and fix them. When I have children, I fully intend to teach them to mend their clothing; it’s a valuable and relatively simple skill.

Summum's avatar

Yes I repair or fix my clothes. I learned how to become self sufficient and learned to cook, sew, mend, all chores around the house, iron, knit etc… I never have considered those things to be a woman’s job so I learned to do it for myself. In my youth it was either that or get nothing done.

Seelix's avatar

I won’t darn socks or sew tears on the seams in underwear, but I’ll mend other things. Some things I’ll take to my mom because I’m not much with a needle and thread.

Summum's avatar

A lot of men wear their underwear with all the tears.

Seelix's avatar

@Summum – I know, and it drives me nuts! Every time I do laundry, Mr. Fiance’s socks and underwear are culled. Maybe I should have said that rather than repairing those things, I just throw them away.

Summum's avatar

ROFL It is a common thing.

YoBob's avatar

Yep. In fact I stitched a hole in a seam of the sweater I am currently wearing.

However, my sewing skills are limited to easy things like a missing button or re-stitching a seam.

partyparty's avatar

Yes I will replace buttons, or make minor repairs to garments.
Otherwise if there is a major problem I will cut them up and give them to my SO to use as a cleaning cloth.

ilana's avatar

I’ve started to fix my own clothes lately. I bought a new sewing machine a few months ago thinking it would be awesome, I could make my own clothes! But it’s so hard stitching a straight line, so now I only use it for simple corrections, I mean really simple ones…

faye's avatar

I do mostly, unless I hate wearing the item. So then it goes to giveaway and I feel a pang of guilt for not fixing it first, but then I would have to wear it again, because now it’s perfectly good again sigh, so hard being green

Pattijo's avatar

I do only if a button is needed , otherwise I toss it in a pile and forget it .

YARNLADY's avatar

Yes, I mend and patch, and such for everyone in my family.

JLeslie's avatar

Oh yeah, we patch also. I had forgotten that @YARNLADY.

klutzaroo's avatar

If I can do it, I’ll fix it. If I can’t, it often goes to the “wear at home” pile.

Nullo's avatar

Sometimes. Buttons, mostly, and pajamas – things that either are foolproof, or that won’t leave the house.

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