Should I wait to ask, or just go with the flow in this relationship?

I recently broke up with my boyfriend of almost two years. Two days ago in fact. At first I thought it was a good idea, but now I am greatly regretting it.

We talked the other day in person, and apologized for some things, and admitted our wrongs (nothing like being unfaithful, etc).

It was left on good terms, and he said he would have to think. I suggested that he came over today, to help me eat some of my chocolate and he agreed to come ‘if i wanted him to’.

I have now not spoken to him since Saturday, as a way to let him have his space.. (and mine too, as this was a part which caused the breaking up.. the fact that I wanted space!)

So, what I am wondering is – should I send a message in the afternoon when I know he is finished with work, and confirm the time he wants to come, or just wait for him to suggest it? I think if I don’t ask he may start to think maybe I don’t want to see him – but I don’t want to look too excited. He has never been one to bail on anything, and has never not shown up… but now that the circumstances are different I am not too sure how to deal with the whole thing.

Any suggestions regarding the best thing to do would be appreciated! I don’t want to be stressed out about this all day if I can avoid it! Thanks.