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cyrus's avatar

What happens when the one you love isn't the one your with?

Asked by cyrus (27points) April 15th, 2008
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amandaafoote's avatar

Are you both single?

Edit: Sorry, I’m slow and didn’t read the one you’re with, haha. Are they single?

Jazmine's avatar

Well if that’s the case then regardless of whether the person you love loves you as well you need to think of the other person involved. It’s not right to lead someone to believe that you care about them because they become emotionally invested in a lie that you have unwittingly fabricated. You need to take care of that issue before persuing your love.

cyrus's avatar

But what if the one your with hasn’t really been their for you and you feel like all is lost…. how do you tell them especially if you care (like a friend) for them?

Allie's avatar

Then you shouldn’t be with the one you’re with.
You’re cheating yourself because you’re not with someone you do love, and you’re cheating your other because they could be with someone who does love them.

Jazmine's avatar

fantastic answer Allie. Cyrus I don’t say this to scold you, but it’ll be better in the long run for all parties involved if you lay everything out on the table openly and honestly even at the expense of hurting someone. Sometimes you have to choose the lesser of the two evils. In the long run youll be glad and so will they.

cyrus's avatar

Thnxz..everyone = )

breedmitch's avatar

And there’s a rose in a fisted glove
And the eagle flies with the dove
And if you can’t be with the one
You love honey
Love the one you’re with
(last verse)
Turn your heartache right into joy
She’s a girl and you’re a boy
So get it together make it nice
And you won’t need any more advice.

(that one was easy!)

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