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I've begun to feel bored in my relationship and I'm freaking out but I don't know what to do....What do I do!

Asked by deni (23141points) March 4th, 2011

I’m going to try to condense this….I know nobody wants to read a novel at 6:30 AM.

So thats it essentially, I’m bored. We’ve been together a year and a half, and we live together, so we see each other every night, unless I’m working which is usually only one night of the week. But he is so wrapped up in work, and has to go to bed so early so that he can get up at 4 AM, that we never do anything. We hardly have anything to talk about anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (And I rarely feel like talking about the one thing he vents about all the time, which are his 7th and 8th grade students. I just can’t take anymore of it) Even when all I want to do is snuggle with him, he passes out. We rarely have sex. We don’t have time to do anything exciting like take swing dance classes or go out at night or ANYTHING.

I love him so much and vice versa, but sometimes I feel so hopeless.

I feel like a loon, I was watching Julie & Julia last night and crying like a baby just watching a fake happy movie relationship.

Those of you who have been married for a long time, have you felt this way? I don’t know what to suggest, I don’t know what to say, I don’t know how to fix this problem, please help me.

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