Can you help me find a high quality, pale shade of makeup?

I have naturally extremely pale skin. I’ve had a difficult time finding a shade which is pale enough to match my skin tone, but obviously I am not vampire pale so I don’t want anything that white. I have tried the lightest shade in numerous brands but they are all still too much of a contrast to my actual skin color. I have tried Lancome, Dior, and Chanel.. as well as a couple of less expensive brands which did not work out any better.

Can any of you others with very pale skin recommend a good type or brand of makeup foundation for me? I also prefer a matte shade, which allows for good coverage.