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Is it a bad sign if infatuation fades very quickly?
Just curious about other people’s opinions on there. I’ve had huge crushes before in high school with guys I know I couldn’t have. But whenever I’m “talking” to someone or getting to know them I don’t get infatuated or it’s very short lived.
My ex was my friend and when we first dated I wasn’t that attracted but gave him a chance. I grew to be more attracted and loved him but I never daydreamed or had butterflies for him. I felt like I skipped the infatuation stage.
With the current guy I’m seeing I had major butterflies for a month. I daydreamed obsessively about him. It’s been a month now and I don’t feel nervous anymore. I am still interested and would like to get to know him though. I’m attracted.
I guess my infatuation is very short lived. Kinda sucks cuz the feeling is fun haha.
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