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Is it a bad sign if infatuation fades very quickly?

Asked by chelle21689 (7907points) March 24th, 2011

Just curious about other people’s opinions on there. I’ve had huge crushes before in high school with guys I know I couldn’t have. But whenever I’m “talking” to someone or getting to know them I don’t get infatuated or it’s very short lived.

My ex was my friend and when we first dated I wasn’t that attracted but gave him a chance. I grew to be more attracted and loved him but I never daydreamed or had butterflies for him. I felt like I skipped the infatuation stage.

With the current guy I’m seeing I had major butterflies for a month. I daydreamed obsessively about him. It’s been a month now and I don’t feel nervous anymore. I am still interested and would like to get to know him though. I’m attracted.

I guess my infatuation is very short lived. Kinda sucks cuz the feeling is fun haha.

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