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Tendrillar's avatar

Should I keep trying?

Asked by Tendrillar (52points) April 20th, 2008

I met this really cool girl this weekend and we seemed to hit it off pretty well, talked for quite a bit, and I made her laugh and what not. I got her phone number and she got mine.

I called her to come to a party my roommates and I threw , but she didn’t answer my message. She did call later that night ,but I wasn’t near my phone. It was already too late to call again that night, so I called her today and there was no answer, nor an attempt at reaching me again.

Should I keep trying or can I just not take a hint?

I just don’t know.

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lovelyy's avatar

well if she ended up calling you back, she’s interested.
instead of calling her this time just text her.

judochop's avatar

Churchill once said, “never, never, never, never give up.” if you dig her, let her know but don’t be pushy.

jrpowell's avatar

Sounds like bad timing.. I wouldn’t give up yet. And don’t sound so needy when you talk to her.

Tendrillar's avatar

Do I sound needy in my post?

My last relationship ended almost eleven months ago and I haven’t really focused on dating.
I almost feel as if I’ve (as stupid as this sounds) lost my edge, or know how when it comes to sensibly showing a girl I’m interested.

judochop's avatar

nothing sends the message like helium filled condoms and a dozen roses. Really though, good luck you will do fine.

Tendrillar's avatar


Thanks man. Think I’ll just cross my fingers and give that a try.

Thanks for your help guys. And girl.

baseballnut's avatar

Keep trying! She called you back, which likely means that she didn’t feel great about attending the party but wanted to see you. Don’t give up – what can it hurt? It’s hard to get back in the game after a year but it’s better than not trying.

wildflower's avatar

Just send her a text saying you’re bummed to have missed her call but you’d love to hear from her again.

jrpowell's avatar

Sorry, I didn’t mean to imply that you sounded needy. I just meant that you shouldn’t call multiple times everyday. I used the wrong words to express what I was thinking.

TheHaight's avatar

don’t give up, but have that thought in the back of the mind that there’s other girls out there!! I hate the whole phone tag dilemma- you’re not alone with that!

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