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When is he going to propose?

Asked by MtnCalling33 (62points) April 17th, 2011

We have been looking at rings and talking about it. We’ve been together for 2 years and he knows that I want to get married and start a family. He already has 2 kids, but I do not and am ready! I’m not getting any younger and feel like it’s time already!

But, I just, for some reason feel like he’s not rushing out to buy the ring yet. What if he’s all talk? I am just worried that he’s not going to and I am wasting more time with him when I could be out there meeting a man who is seriously wanting the same things..

He did have a somewhat timeframe because there is a family reunion that I was going to go with them to, but his mom is a nut job and doesn’t want me to go. She’s the type who has never had a job, has NO friends and feels very threatened by other women…so that’s actually a new issue with us too. But we decided that we wanted to go to this thing as engaged (and I wanted that type of commitment before I’d fly off to spend a week with his family)

Anyway, I now get the feeling since I’m not going, he will drag his feet!

What should I do??

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