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[NSFW] What sort of "controversial" items do you have on your bucket list?

Asked by WillWorkForChocolate (23163points) May 2nd, 2011

By “controversial”, I mean things that not everyone in your life would approve of. I’d like to visit a titty bar, and I’d like to make love with a woman. Two things I’ve never done, and I just want to see what it’s like. Most of my family members would completely flip the hell out if they knew this, which is why those two things are “controversial” for me.

What sort of things are on your bucket list that your family or friends might find “controversial”?

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KateTheGreat's avatar

I want to make love to a trans-gendered person, smoke weed with my mother, and take part in some BDSM roleplay. Yeah, I’m weird.

CaptainHarley's avatar

Several things, but they’re all illegal! : D

Jude's avatar

Meh. I’m boring.

Threesome. Been there, done that. (a couple of times over) No interest, now. =)

WillWorkForChocolate's avatar

@Jude I had a threesome once, with two guys, but it felt really awkward.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

Two that I won’t talk about…until I get out of jail :)

MilkyWay's avatar

Go around the streets wearin a leather jacket whilst carrying a gun in my hand. ;)
maybe get a tattoo too… though, not sure on that one.

WillWorkForChocolate's avatar

@KatetheGreat You’re not weird. I’d like to dabble in BDSM too. My hubby’s not really into it though, except for the times when he bites the ever loving hell out of me because he knows I love it.

yankeetooter's avatar

Mines pretty boring…and it’s not going to happen anyway…

KatawaGrey's avatar

I want to have a threesome with two bisexual men. I doubt this will ever happen, but that’s okay by me because I’ve got an awesome boyfriend.

@queenie: That reminds me, I really want to learn how to shoot a gun and get my concealed carry permit. Even though I come from a family of Republicans, not a single one would be happy to hear that.

However, my resolve has wavered ever since I met and had a wonderful, albeit drunken, conversation with a young man in one of my classes. @KatetheGreat, you’ll appreciate this. He is a female to male transsexual and he is absolutely gorgeous. Thankfully, school is about to end so there is an almost non-existent chance that anything will happen with him.

Neizvestnaya's avatar

I’d like to be a vigilante for a spell.

I’ve also always wanted to design an online voyeur sex brothel of humans interacting with “Real Dolls”.

KateTheGreat's avatar

@WillWorkForChocolate I’m glad that I’m not alone!

Joker94's avatar

None of mine are exciting
I’d like to watch the entire Star Wars Saga in one sitting while stoned senseless, make love in the middle of some godforsaken field in the middle of nowhere at some ungodly hour in the morning, and patrol the streets with my friends as a group of super heros.

Cruiser's avatar

Anything controversial on my bucket list is now long gone! ;)

Jude's avatar

@WillWorkForChocolate For me, it was two girls and one time, a married couple. I enjoyed it. I was in my early to mid 20’s.

WillWorkForChocolate's avatar

@Jude Was there a cup involved? Sorry! Sorry! I couldn’t resist!!! :P
I’d really love to test drive a woman just once. It’s like an itch I need to scratch, but I think my hubby’s paranoid that I would like it too much and once wouldn’t be enough..

Jude's avatar

hahaa!!

KateTheGreat's avatar

@WillWorkForChocolate It’s sooo worth it. Being with a woman at least once is a wonderful experience.

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Jude's avatar

Boys are smelly. :)

KateTheGreat's avatar

@noelleptc ME TOO. I want to do it once. If I like it, I’d probably do it again. It just looks like fun.

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zenvelo's avatar

@KatawaGrey Why do you say “thankfully”? Is it because of your boyfriend?

KatawaGrey's avatar

@zenvelo: Yes. I have never yet succumbed to temptation, but I wouldn’t want to risk it.

Facade's avatar

- Threesome with two guys
– Fooling around with a hot girl
– Several more tattoos
– Do LSD, mushrooms, and Ecstasy
– Amateur porn with my SO
– Public nudity
– Nude photography

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Trojans40's avatar

I already killed someone. With a butter knife.
I already went to church and flip the cross up-side down where Jesus lay.
I never did drugs and don’t want to. (I like a clear mind) dont mind try acid, but not sure what the conquenses are.
I don’t mind tattoo that my parents would disgrace apon.
(never having metal on me again)
fucking a pornstar
screaming like a girl in a mall did that.
Wrestle with a Girl (any kind of wrestling)
A drive-by with 3 hardcore black guys
Get busted with Hentia Porn
BDSM
yup.

ddude1116's avatar

I want to: hitchhike to…anywhere, make experimental films/literature/art, try acid or shrooms, various acts of stupidity involving sexual experiments, too… I want to go to as many art museums as I can find stoned out of my mind hey, that rhymed!, write haiku, a lot of haiku that are about anything and everything.. I’ll think of more…

MyNewtBoobs's avatar

@KatawaGrey @KatetheGreat I went to a GLBT conference when I was in high school; one of the speakers was a GORgeous FTM. He basically played into every single person’s idea of a hot mate. The conference was basically several thousand high school students of all genders and sexualities drooling over this one man.

jonsblond's avatar

@WillWorkForChocolate I did the titty bar with my husband and a few of his friends several years ago. Much fun. The guys wanted to pay for several lap dances for me. It was a long night. :D

The dancer that danced for me asked to kiss me later on in the evening before we left. I did, but it was just a peck. I was being shy. Looking back now I wouldn’t mind making out with her. but that’s about it.

JustJessica's avatar

@Facade and @noelleptc I highly recommend the threesome with two men, at least once, but you are right you will want it again, and the opportunity to do it doesn’t come up much, I mean with people you would actually want to do it with. Don’t go to your grave without trying it!!!!

jonsblond's avatar

^^I’ve got to say, sometimes fantasies are better left fantasies. just saying. been there, done that without getting into too much detail.

MyNewtBoobs's avatar

@jonsblond Agreed. It was so much better when it wasn’t real.

ucme's avatar

I’d quite like to fire a dwarf out of a cannon. My intended target would be a naked sumo wrestler bent over in the “come hither” position. Just for shits & giggles more than any sexual gratification you understand.

Facade's avatar

@jonsblond @MyNewtBoobs I think I’d like it though. Of course my SO would never approve…

adventuretime's avatar

be with two guys not just one.

wundayatta's avatar

It would have been cool to be like a sailor.

(A woman in every port)

lookingforwhy's avatar

Just get fucked up and showing up to my parents house. Then go up to them and say “hey this is me, I’m surely glad you pay attention enough to me to realize what I’m becoming to.’

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