When it comes to kids and sex is it really a waste of time telling them the difference between love and lust?

It is said that you best arm kids with prophylactics and information about sex because they are just going to do it anyhow. While acquiescing that fact why waist time trying to tell them the difference of having sec as a loving connected experience with one you have emotion for and just plain ******* for the fun of it because the media makes it seem like the best rollercoaster ride on the planet? Why not just hand them the Trojans, give them the Planned Parenthood express phone number, go make a pot of tea and kick back?