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Looking for opinions on the etiquette regarding spreading ashes of the deceased?
I have a relative who recently passed. I was not particularly close to this person.
I am on a trip to visit my hometown. I was asked by some family members where I would be staying. I mentioned I was staying at a beautiful hotel on the ocean I had gotten a deal on.
They asked me to spread the ashes of this relative at the location. I was unaware, but this relative had worked there for many years a few decades ago.
The relative who passed had many physical and psychological problems, and was very private. Nobody has until this point been able to think of a suitable location.
I absolutely have no problem doing this. Whatever.
Should I tell the hotel and have them say no, or just go ahead and worry about interruption or fiasco?
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