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Eggie's avatar

What is your game?

Asked by Eggie (5867points) July 19th, 2011

In the dating world, we guys have lots of styles and tricks or strategies to get the girl we want. This question is for all the studs out there that have successfully won their way with women on occasion. Everyone’s game is different…so what is your game in getting women? girls feel free to criticize at will….

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jrpowell's avatar

I am funny and can fix your computer for free. And my dick is huge.

Eggie's avatar

I see this question is gonna give me a lot of laughs….

Jude's avatar

Following .. just read the responses. GQ.

Dr_Lawrence's avatar

I listen well and use evocative empathy: an active process in which I listen to their intended message so they intensely feel understood.

Jay484's avatar

I start by getting to know them, becoming close friends with her and then when I feel its the right time to ask, I ask her out

TexasDude's avatar

LIke @johnpowell, I have a massive prehensile penis that I have to keep stored on ice most of the time to keep it from becoming unruly.

Oh, and I’m really sweet and always willing to give a shoulder to lean on. I’m the stereotypical NiceGuy┬«

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

“I have a massive prehensile penis that I have to keep stored on ice most of the time to keep it from becoming unruly” may be the most awesome line I’ve ever read on Fluther.

TexasDude's avatar

@ANef_is_Enuf glad to be of service to ya.

poisonedantidote's avatar

Seriously? I don’t have a style unless I’m trying to pick up strangers, if it’s someone I already know, I’ll just do whatever comes to mind at the time. However, If I’m trying to pick up strangers I do have a routine.

First I will make it known that I am there, this usually entails walking around a little saying hi to people and asking if I can get past. Then I look around to see who is looking at me, when I see a girl that is looking at me, I look back for about 2 or 3 seconds while making eye contact, then I smile while keeping eye contact, If I get a smile, without taking my eyes off her I walk over and dish out a random but genuine compliment. My next step is to get them talking about something, so I can interrupt them with the intention of moving to a different location, e.g. closer to the bar so we are further from the loud speakers. I get a drink in and we have a chat, and see how it goes from there.

wundayatta's avatar

It’s not a game. It’s me. And it works just fine, thank you very much.

Jude's avatar

@johnpowell comment makes me want to become a switch hitter.

ANef_is_Enuf's avatar

@Jude I think he’s on to something.

jrpowell's avatar

@Jude :: I’m assuming it the free computer repair part that makes you want to switch.

Jude's avatar

@johnpowell You got it. I have this virus, see…

TexasDude's avatar

@Carly so you vibrate to attract mates?

Aethelflaed's avatar

@Fiddle_Playing_Creole_Bastard A NiceGuy┬« is a douche bag who think that because he once opened a door for a woman or handed her a Kleenex after she got dumped, he was a “nice guy” and she now owes him a date (and who always bitches about how hard it is to be a nice guy). You are not that douche bag. You are simply a guy who has niceness and decency ingrained into him, thus making you a nice guy (with lower case letters). Which is why we lurve you.

I’m with @wundayatta – no game, just me. But it does help that my big interests are Star Wars and sex. How I have so much trouble meeting (decent) guys, I’ll never know…

TexasDude's avatar

@Aethelflaed wow, I’ll gladly accept that definition. Thank you… that’s very kind of you.

And I should amend my previous answer with ”...a shoulder to lean on, but not often a penis to hold.” Because the OkCupid dating persona test I took said so, since I’m a “boy next door” apparently.

Carly's avatar

@Fiddle_Playing_Creole_Bastard lol, no, I just think tend to think about the person so much that eventually I get the nerve up to finally ask them out.

Carly's avatar

apparently I’m “the window shopper”
makes sense

TexasDude's avatar

@Carly nice. I was the “slow dancer” a little less than a year ago, but now I’m the “boy next door.” My how times have changed!

ucme's avatar

Kissy catchy, I was caught. Not that I put much resistance.

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